Discussions by VICTORIA

I feel like this may be a dumb question, BUT here we go anyway. Cake serving sets- necessary or no? Worth the extra expense? FH doesn't think it's worth it and thinks it's a waste of money. He doesn't...

Hi all! To start : we aren't allowing +1's unless guests are married or engaged by the time our Save the Dates went out. Everyone is aware and fine with it. We had to do this because FH wanted kids in...

Alright, ladies. I know this is something that MANY of my fellow brides have had to deal with. I'm not sure if it'll come to this for me, yet, but I want to give myself time to come to terms with it...

Hi guys! This is a really long-ish story, I'm sorry. But I could really use some advice or suggestions. I'm considering demoting my MOH and asking another BM to step up. I asked one of my good friends...

Okay...so FH and I have made the decision to postpone the wedding celebration. We ARE having a small ceremony to marry on our original date because it was important to me. But, the bigger...

Alright guys, I have struggled my entire life with my weight. Basically, I have an underactive thyroid...but not so bad that the doctors feel I should be diagnosed with hypothryoidism and put on meds....

Hi all! So, as with many others, FH and I have had to postpone our wedding. While NY has been opening, the guidelines would not allow us the wedding we planned. So we postponed to June 2021. That...

Hi guys! FH and I have postponed our 10/25/20 wedding until next Summer 😭 However, we're still getting civilly married on our original day (big celebration will be next year). We will only have our...

Has anyone looked into, or been to on of, the Sandals Resorts? FH and I are considering honeymooning at one next Summer. Wantes to hear some input from anyone who's been. Pros/Cons/Likes/Dislikes....

Hey guys. I'm in NY and right now we can only have groups of 50 total. I'm hopeful, as is my venue, that come end of October this will be increased (PLEASE SEND ALL THE POSITIVE VIBES MY WAY!). Our...

Hey guys. We're a Capital District couple getting married 10/25/2020. Our venue is a private Country Club. I have emailed them about the plan- if we're moving forward as scheduled or....? I haven't...

Hey girls! I had a quick question regarding the night before the wedding! Eek! FH and I already know we will NOT be spending the night together. I reserved rooms at two different hotels. I'll be...

Hi all! We're doing a co-ed wedding shower, versus the traditional bridal shower. Mostly because I am not a fan of being the center of attention and don't want to do it alone- I'm gonna make FH suffer...

Hey everyone. So, I have a bridal party of 3 and also a flower girl. Need some input on hair/make-up and who pays given the specific circumstances within the party. MOH - best friend for the last 6...

Just looking for some honeymoon ideas! We'll have 7, possibly 10, days for a honeymoon in Summer 2020. We do NOT want to honeymoon in Mexico, we just think a lot of people do that. We did find a sloth...

I am beyond stressed. Our wedding is at the end of October 2020, so far so good on moving forward as planned. HOWEVER, our appt for the suits was cancelled due to the shutdowns. And, they haven't...

Hi all! I'm using gold spray painted wine bottles for our centerpieces. And we're putting 1-2 flowers, along with some greenery, in each bottle. But I'm blanking on what else I could use to fill out...

Okay, guys. I hadn't even thought about this until tonight and now I can't NOT think about it. I read that I should be inviting the Officiant and his spouse to the reception? I already planned for my...

I know the basic rundown of the processional, so that's not entirely my issue. But I do have a few questions... I don't have Usher's, so who should walk my mom down the aisle? She does have a...