Hey everyone. So, I have a bridal party of 3 and also a flower girl. Need some input on hair/make-up and who pays given the specific circumstances within the party.
MOH - best friend for the last 6 years, like a sister
BM 1 - best friend since first grade
BM 2 - FH's sister
FG - BM2s daughter/FH's niece
BM2's husband is also FH's best man! So they have some money being spent to be in our wedding
I decided against paying for the bridal party's hair and make-up and having that be a cost they incurred ($180) but I AM handling the stylist tip for everyone. Every wedding I have been in, I've paid for my own hair/make-up. I spoke to a few family members and they all said the same- it's a cost that comes with accepting the invitation to be in the bridal party.
However, I am going to pay for all of us to have a girls day where we get our nails/toes done a few days prior as part of their gift. The rest of their bridal gift is a bracelet and necklace to wear on the wedding day, a personalized wine glass to use while getting ready, and few other small things.
I'm also paying for EVERYTHING for the Flower Girl (dress, shoes, hair, etc) because both of her parents are also in the wedding party and I didn't mind helping out a bit.
Given that- should I also pay for BM2s hair and make-up? I'm not paying for the other girl's and I'm not sure that's really fair, ya know? The only "real" costs the bridal party has is their dress, shoes, and hair/make-up. Is it fine for me to expect BM2 to pay for her own? What would y'all do?