Invitations

When you address the envelopes for married couples, do you use first names (Linda and Sam Whitefield) or do you say Mr. & Mrs. Whitefield)?

Posted On: Nov 2, 2009 at 1:50 PM | Vendors are allowed to participate


KT in PD
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analy m.
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 1:57 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Mr. and Mrs. (husband's first name) Last name
ex: Mr. and Mrs. Sam Whitefield

sweet_firefly
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 1:57 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
The proper (formal) way is to address the envelope to Mr. & Mrs. Whitefield. I believe you can use first names with titles, but I'm not sure how it's done.

It's up to you to decide the formality of your invitation. We chose to address our envelopes the other way (Sam and Linda Whitefield) because we wanted our invitations to be more casual.

The Potters
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 2:01 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Mr. and Mrs. Sam Whitefield
But when I did mine I realy didn't care how proper they were. So I did Sam and Linda Whitefield. But that isn't the most proper way to do it.

The Potters
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 2:01 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Oh and you want to be proper, it should say Samuel...not Sam

Konichiwa
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 2:06 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
When I looked up the etiquette on line all the sites said the outer envelope should read "Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Whitefield" and the inner envelope should read "Samuel and Linda Whitefield"

Konichiwa
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 2:07 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
LOL if you don't have inner envelopes then you don't have to worry about that part...

KT in PD
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 2:09 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
You guys are so great. Thanks for the help.
KT

dragonflydesigns
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Posted On: Nov 04, 2009 at 2:23 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
This will help, as I'm sure more questions will arise
http://www.dragonflydesignstx.com/images/Etiquettepage.pdf
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