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Amy
Engagement Party Cancelled :(
Amy, on June 29, 2012 at 10:15 AM

My bridal party had been plannning and engagement party for FH and I for next month. Invitations went out a few weeks ago and the RSVP date has arrived and we have ZERO guests who replied that they...

Amy A., Jun 29, 2012 17 653
Shawna
Registry-how many place settings?
Shawna, on June 28, 2012 at 3:02 PM

We are finishing our registry tonight (yay!) and I'm wondering how many place settings we should register for for our dinnerware. It's rare that we would have more than 6 at the table but I'm thinking...

Shawna, Jun 29, 2012 20 2,376
Anonymous
Rehearsal Dinner Etiquette -- Does your wedding party typically bring their SOs to the rehearsal dinner?
Anonymous, on June 26, 2012 at 10:18 PM

Or is that strictly wedding party only? I've heard different scenarios. Obviously, the driving factor is cost. The wedding reception isn't cheap so what is the protocol for the rehearsal dinner? I...

Forever (a) Young, Jun 28, 2012 16 1,327
JAG
How many registries should you have?
JAG, on June 3, 2012 at 12:38 AM

Should you only have one registry? If you have two, should you have the same things as you do on the other registry???

Nicole, Jun 28, 2012 27 712
Jenai
Where can I purchase wishing stones?
Jenai, on January 9, 2012 at 3:50 PM

I was thing of using Wishing Stones instead of a guest book. I am planning on setting a bowl full of stones on the table as guests sign in and pick up their place card. They would then take a stone...

Madhavi, Jun 28, 2012 2 288
Michelle
What do you get your parents for gifts??
Michelle, on June 27, 2012 at 1:19 PM

I'm having a hard time coming up with possible gifts for the parents (both of the groom and my own). How do you thank your parents with just a gift?? It seems weird giving them an engraved frame or...

Megan, Jun 27, 2012 13 721
A
Beverages
Anonymous, on June 26, 2012 at 12:25 PM

Hi, first time poster here! I need some help. I’m having a cake and punch reception and was thinking about serving lemonade, punch, and water as beverage choices. These beverages will serve about 80...

Hayley C™, Jun 27, 2012 12 62,929 1
D
Older sister as Matron of Honor but not apart of bridal party? Thoughts/Suggestions
Diane, on June 25, 2012 at 9:59 PM

My sister and I are 10 years apart and couldn't imagine my wedding day without her. She is my best friend and I want her to be be my Matron of Honor, but knowing my sister, she would feel very...

Mrs. Clark aka Mrs A, Jun 26, 2012 9 576
Sara
Last dance
Sara, on June 25, 2012 at 8:55 PM

I know there has been recent conversation about song choice but should the last song be fast or slow? I can't decide what I want it to be. I'm meeting with the DJ tomorrow to finalize everything for...

krisalicious, Jun 26, 2012 26 926
J
Reception format
Janet, on June 26, 2012 at 12:02 AM

Would love to hear folks' feedback on the format/flow of their reception. We are having a cocktail hour, dinner, cake cutting and dancing and need to figure out when to plug in parents, best man/maid...

Melody, Jun 26, 2012 7 256
LG
Declined on STD...Send Invitation?
LG, on June 24, 2012 at 12:35 PM

If someone lets you know based on the STD that they can't attend, do you still have to send a formal invite? Thoughts?

Future Mrs. L <3, Jun 25, 2012 23 1,884
Bethany
Future MIL becoming "bridezilla"?
Bethany, on June 23, 2012 at 1:22 AM

My future in-laws have always been supportive of our relationship. However when he proposed, and I started planning everything, things started going downhill with mine and his mothers relationship. I...

Denise Buzy-Pucheu, Jun 25, 2012 11 95
I_Found_Mr_Wright
Bridal Shower Nerves...Advice?
I_Found_Mr_Wright, on May 23, 2012 at 9:49 PM

So I'm a pretty shy and quiet kinda girl and my mom and MOH are throwing me a really nice bridal shower on June 2nd. There's going to be about 20 people there including some of my friends, my mom's...

I_Found_Mr_Wright, Jun 25, 2012 14 1,862
Mika
Leaving the reception
Mika, on June 21, 2012 at 9:38 PM

In most of the weddings that I've attended, the bride and groom leave the reception a little before it ends, bird seed or bubbles or whatever, and then have gone off to their honeymoon. FH and I are...

Anonymous, Jun 25, 2012 17 1,534
James to Be ♥
Upbeat Recessional
James to Be ♥, on May 26, 2012 at 9:10 AM

I have been just having the hardest time trying to find a recessional song that’s upbeat. I found two that I like what do you all think? I’m looking for some R&B, something about love. Any...

Allen, Jun 25, 2012 19 238
Aidan (Mrs. Cowgell!)
Addressing invite to a couple where the woman's name is hyphenated.
Aidan (Mrs. Cowgell!), on June 24, 2012 at 12:19 PM

So, we're sending out a few last B-list invites (god, I hate how bad that sounds) and ran in to this. We have friends of ours from faire that are married, but her last name is hyphenated. How would we...

Private User, Jun 24, 2012 4 7,086
Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C)
Why is it always about the bride??
Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C), on June 22, 2012 at 1:36 PM

Just taking a little lunch break so I can't respond until later- but honestly I want to know if there is anyone else out there as frustrated as I am that typical culture focuses completely on the...

Marlo, Jun 23, 2012 40 9,561
Emily
Buffet vs Plated
Emily, on June 21, 2012 at 11:14 AM

What are you ladies doing? I'm starting to look into catering and am kind of leaning towards plated but I'm not sure yet...

Lisa, Jun 22, 2012 50 5,697
Stasha
What is an honorary bridesmaid
Stasha, on June 20, 2012 at 12:07 PM

Hello - My oldest and closest friend will be in the Peace Corps and unable to attend our wedding. Would she be considered an honorary bridesmaid? I would like for her to be recognized in some way... ...

heavenlyyoyo, Jun 22, 2012 11 1,122
ShaTerra
What to do with the slip under garment after the wedding?
ShaTerra, on June 22, 2012 at 8:57 AM

I was wondering what can we do with it after the wedding? It flares our dress out under the dress but then what? Can we rent them instead or sell them?

CassieCA, Jun 22, 2012 5 141
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