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Lisa
Married couples, how long did your dinner time take at your reception
Lisa, on June 14, 2012 at 3:12 PM

Married couples newly weds, or wedding guest, How long did your/the dinner time take at the reception?

That one chick who's, Jun 15, 2012 16 20,864
Alec
Wedding Invitation Font
Alec, on June 13, 2012 at 10:40 AM

I'm having a very difficult time finding the right font for the wedding invitations. We want something masculine but not so boring that it looks sterile. Suggestions?

Alec, Jun 13, 2012 12 256
Jennifer
Do you really need 2 seperate songs for the bridal party and the bride?
Jennifer, on June 12, 2012 at 6:57 PM

I wanted to use Bella's Lullaby to walk down to and we only have the flower girls/ring bearer then 2 couples (MOH with Best man and Bridesmaid with groomsman). It's a 3 minute song, so wouldn't that...

Fiona, Jun 13, 2012 14 4,222
Erika
Possible to get married in Caribbean on $5000 budget??
Erika, on June 12, 2012 at 2:55 PM

I'm on a fixed budget of $5,000 (for venue, catering, decor NOT airfare accommodations) and want to get married 1. On the beach 2. In the Caribbean or Mexico (or any destination out of the US...

LovelyBride430, Jun 13, 2012 16 2,144
wadergirl
Adult Ringbearer
wadergirl, on June 13, 2012 at 1:01 AM

So the FI and I have been discussing asking his 18 yo godson to be our ringbearer. He would not be escorting the flower girls, but bringing the rings into the ceremony (a more refined attitude on the...

coffeeandtea1, Jun 13, 2012 5 940
Kristin
Is my ring too loose? Stressed :(
Kristin, on June 12, 2012 at 5:19 PM

I know this is weird... but can a few of you explain how your ring fits? I can't tell if mine if fitting properly. I have already gotten mine sized down once, but I still think it could be too loose....

Renewal Bride To Be, Jun 13, 2012 11 54,066
colleen
RECESSIONAL MUSIC!!!
colleen, on June 12, 2012 at 9:43 PM

I want something cute and original for our exit!!! my fiance wont dance down the isle with me in the beginning of the ceremony so i want a fun song we can dance to at the end!!!

Megan, Jun 12, 2012 4 103
C
How many people do the parents get to invite?
Chris, on June 12, 2012 at 2:34 AM

I am the MofG and both sets of parents and the b and g are all jointly paying for the wedding. The guest list must top off at 100, due to the caterer. Is it ok for me to ask my son and daughter in law...

Kirst, Jun 12, 2012 17 5,724
Krista
Anyone feeling rushed to have children
Krista, on November 8, 2011 at 5:37 PM

Life is not going along the plans i had expected it to, but whose life ever does. I am 31 now....Will be 32 when i get married next year, if we start trying to have a baby right away then i should be...

Elizabeth, Jun 12, 2012 49 351
Tracy
Kids at bridal shower?
Tracy, on June 12, 2012 at 12:58 AM

I wasn't really expecting this, but I have had 2 friends ask if they can bring kids to my shower. I'm not bringing my own, and have never been to a bridal shower with kids. I would honestly prefer to...

Tracy, Jun 12, 2012 23 1,786
Private User
How do i ask my friends and family to help me with our wedding ?
Private User, on June 6, 2012 at 5:54 PM

Hi my name is Kendra. We are getting married on 10-11-12 , Im so excited !!! So far I have planned everything myself and know I may have forgot a couple of things. Its a low cost wedding, which my...

Private User, Jun 10, 2012 11 4,893
Kristin
"Plus ones" that you don't know AT ALL? (small wedding)
Kristin, on June 8, 2012 at 4:07 PM

I want opinions! We are planning to give everyone a "plus 1" because we want people to celebrate our day with their loved one (husband/wife/fiance/SO). All of my guests are either married, engaged, or...

Kristin, Jun 10, 2012 23 765
T
Besides Lingerie?
T, on June 8, 2012 at 5:10 PM

What do you get a bride for her bridal shower if she hasn't asked for anything? I'm going to my friends shower next weekend. I'm sure she'll get a lot of lingerie, but I kinda want to give her...

Beth, Jun 8, 2012 11 1,901
Mrs. J-Mo
Gifts for readers and soloist?
Mrs. J-Mo, on June 8, 2012 at 1:59 PM

I have no idea what to get them. We have 3 readers (FSILs) and a soloist (my great aunt)...and I am really not trying to spend too much... What are you getting your readers/soloist??? ...and what do...

Jessica, Jun 8, 2012 6 268
Amy
How to get people dancing?
Amy, on June 8, 2012 at 8:00 AM

Originally I planned on doing our "first dance" immediately following the wedding party introduction. If I do that... then have toasts/dinner/cake... how can I get people up and dancing after? I feel...

Emmy Nae, Jun 8, 2012 17 436
Kristin
Would no linens be too tacky?
Kristin, on June 7, 2012 at 12:32 AM

We are looking at a venue that charges a large amount for linens. Would it be too tacky to not have them and possibly substitute an alternative, cheaper table decoration to make it look a bit more...

Kristin, Jun 7, 2012 12 225
Britnee
Rehearsal Dinner no no?
Britnee, on June 7, 2012 at 11:49 AM

I recently went to a rehearsal dinner which was very informal. Everyone went to Buffalo Wild Wings. Nothing fancy, no speeches, just everyone relaxing before we parted ways. When the bill came -...

Allexa, Jun 7, 2012 43 420
Rae
Parents heading towards divorce...4 months before my wedding :-(
Rae, on June 7, 2012 at 10:06 AM

My dad is not an easy person to get along with. He has been with my step mom for 13 years and I don't have a relationship with my biological mom at all so I call my SM "mom" and she is the MOB for all...

Rae, Jun 7, 2012 4 788
Amy
Will people bring gifts to the wedding?
Amy, on June 6, 2012 at 2:37 PM

Alright so Im unsure... Ive been to many weddings where there was a gift/card table. Is this for those who were invited to the shower and didnt show? Or for people to leave gifts just because? We are...

Krystal, Jun 7, 2012 26 107
Pan
Bridal Party Dances
Pan, on June 6, 2012 at 3:41 AM

Not the fun ones where the bride and BMs do a fun choreographed dance, and the groom and GMs do one. I'm talking about the old school slow dances where the BMs have to dance with the GM they walked...

HoundMama, Jun 6, 2012 16 183
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