Parents heading towards divorce...4 months before my wedding :-(

Honestly, I would be there for them if either needs family, but sometimes getting into the middle of other couples' drama can make for a sticky situation.

Once my dad & mom (same as you, she's my step, but she's been in my life for 20 yrs, she IS my mom) got into big fight, my mom was bitching about dad as he walked away. She started ranting to me, I dont even know she realized she was ranting lol. I said something along the lines of "Mom I want to say what you've told me before, boys will be boys lol" she found it funny, but my dad came running around the corner, saying how dare you get in the middle of this!

Case in point, sometimes trying to help them can make things worse. They have to figure it out. I know that's your parents, it must be killing you inside to see them falling apart. Many people look up to their parents, esp if usually their relationships are stable. But step out of the box for a second, they arent just your parents, they are a couple that has issues

And sometimes those issues need to be dealt with privately.

just try to hang in there, & remember that even if they split up, their love for each other doesnt change how they love you

I would let them both know you are there for them and you support them in whatever they decide. I know you wish you could just get rid of the tension and make their relationship smooth & happy again. There are a thousand reasons why couples fight. They may talk of divorce, but they also could work it out in the end. Good luck and keep your head high!

Thanks Masquerade and Kimpy!

I'm not getting in the middle, just figuring out bits and pieces from hints they're giving and really just worried in general.

Thanks again ladies!