Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My wedding is planned to be at my mother's house- it is a HUGE house and my mom throws a huge wedding-sized Xmas party every year. However she has a habit of anticipating "problems" about any event...

My guests still have 4 weeks to RSVP but im just worried im gonna be chasing ppl down lol...did you guys have to chase any/alot of your guests down? also did anyone CONFIRM everyting with guests or...

Of course I did what anyone else would do after this long - I contacted the bride to make sure she got it and there wasn't any problems trying to cash it. She said she hasn't had a chance to get to...

My close friend is getting married. I am her bridesmaid along with my other good friend. The bride does not have a registry and she doesn't want to have a bridal party. Therefore for a bachelorette...

Okay, so me and my fiancee are both non-drinkers and so are almost all of our friends (sans a few college friends who are on the guest list) Our families, family friends, and co-workers do drink (I...

Watching all these wedding shows and reading here cash bars are just a no-no. Here is my plan.. I really want to know if you went to a wedding like this how would you feel. *Soda, Iced Tea, Coffee-...

We live in Hawaii which is also the location of our wedding. We are getting married in May and my fiances job is moving us back to the mainland after the wedding. I'd like to register for gifts, but I...

My FH and I are writing our own vows and a family pastor is marrying us. My FH was raised in a very religious household and I was not at all. However, both of us at this point would probably fall...

I emailed her a couple days ago, and still haven't heard back from her. In her contract it says that the final delivery will take approx 8 weeks.....but all I want is a few photos, I don't even need...

My boss is throwing me and my fiancee a co-ed wedding shower. In the past my least favorite part of showers is when we have to sit forever watching someone open gifts. It's probably one of the most...

I initially wrote up my invite wording thinking that is wasn't too traditional. I showed them to FH and he said they sound stale and stuffy. I re-wrote them to be much more casual but I don't want...

Yesterday was my second meeting with my rabbi. He is conservative and we are having a conservative wedding. Prior to our meeting, I purchased and got my veil. It is beautiful. There is no blusher for...

I am planning my wedding, however i appointed my aunt to be the Day-of coordiantor to handle business. I know i have to get her the names and number of the DJ, phatographer,hall etc but what else do i...

My fiancee & I are getting married in April & would love some advice on a somewhat-touchy subject. We are people who generally like the least amount of cheesiness possible, and would prefer not to be...

Ladies I know many of you may disagree with me but I want to express a personal opinion here. I have been to many weddings where the couple have chosen to skip the receiving line and visit tables...

I have a dilema. My FH proposed in Jan with a ring that is pretty, but completely NOT my style. It is a thick band with channel set diamonds and a round center diamond with a halo. It is flashy and...

I have a delimma, im trying to cut my GL down and I have my MUA's and Hair Stylist on my list. Am I obligated to invite them?

My fiance has 2 sisters who have never treated me like a friend. In fact, for the past 5 years they have done whatever they can to not include me. Now that we are engaged, one of his sisters thinks...

Yay or Nay?? Waste of paper..yay or nay?? LOL

If you have an attendant that is already married, what is her title. I already have my maid-of-honor, but one of the people that I have asked to be a brides maid is married. So do I still list her in...