Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

At marriage counseling the minister asked if we have any crazy family members that may make a scene. He wanted to know so he could put them in check if need be. Anyone worried about a family member...

Hi everyone! I need some advice please! I'm planning my friends bachelorette party and a few of the places she wants to go to are a bit expensive (probably around 4-500/person for a weekend). I've...

I have a question. My father passed away in 2009. I asked my Godfather to walk me down the aisle because he has always been there for me and I don't have any brothers. However, my biological dad is...

Hi Everyone! For those of your who are keeping your own last name (or if you are changing in a way that is not taking FH's last name as yours) how do you plan to let others know your name situation?...

Im wanting to order my STDs and I have never used either one of these sites. I was just wondering if anyone recommended one over the other. How is the quality of their stuff?

I am thinking about canceling my church wedding and eloping in Jamaica like we had originally planned. My birthday is Aug 3rd and I will be turning 30. The wedding date that resort in Jamaica has...

I have a daughter from a previous relationship. I really want her to have a special part in the wedding. I was told to have her as a flower girl. But to me, a flower girl isn’t very important. My 3...

So what is everyone's idea of standards of FB etiquette for posting about the wedding? Should it not be done at all? Limited? Should I create a list so when I post wedding related things only those...

I just commented on another thread re: videographers at the wedding and it got me thinking - for those of you who had videographers at your wedding, what was the turn around time on your video? We're...

So I am newly engaged and a friend from college called to congratulate me. In the phone conversation it was very clear that she took herself as invited to the wedding. I had only planned on inviting 5...

We have a slew of OOT guests. Literally 80 out of 108 guests are coming in from other states or even countries. We can't possibly host a rehearsal dinner for all of them, but I was wondering if a...

So I have a really great relationship with my FMIL and FFIL, but I really want to so my FMIL how much she means to me and how much of an impact she has had on me. I want to dedicate a song to her at...

My Fiancé has a 13-year-old son who is going to be ringbearer for our upcoming nuptials. We all feel he is too old to carry the rings on a pillow. Anyone have any ideas of how he can carry the rings...

WWers, as usual I'm coming to you for advice... Here's the situation, my wedding date was September 21st. It is now December 2nd and I have gotten ZERO photos back from my photographer. No digital...

My fiance's father getting remarried. It was very sudden and no one is happy. They are having a very large wedding in very expensive venue. Do we give a gift? My fiance's brother is not even giving a...

So I know I am totally doing this to myself, but there are some traditions that I feel like I don't want to take a part in because I'm not super young getting married right out of college or whatever....

Looking for some advice on how to handle this situation. My parent's church (and the church I grew up in, though I no longer attend) has a "Shower Committee." The ladies on the committee approached my...

I know its very rude to tell your BMs to lose weight for your wedding, but one of my girls has gained a TON of weight since I got engaged last Oct. I casually asked her this past weekend if she was...

Do they even say this anymore? My parents have been divorced for 23 years and have both been remarried however it is important to me that if they do this question I want my dad to say her mother and I...

What are your thoughts on bridesmaids having a corsage instead of carrying bouquets? I am doing a low key beach wedding so I am thinking it will look fine, but I just need some other people's...