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Guest purchased gift from registry, but never sent it. What do I do?
KBM, on October 8, 2015 at 11:44 AM

A friend of mine purchased a gift from our registry. We didn't receive it in the mail, so I assumed she was going to bring it with her since she RSVP'd that she and her husband were coming. We didn't...

KBM, Oct 8, 2015 15 15,039
MrsPope
Gifts with no names?
MrsPope, on October 7, 2015 at 3:47 PM

We received numerous wedding gifts from our friends and family but about half of them do not have names on them. How do we properly thank them? I've posted on Facebook "if you gave us a beautiful gift...

Susan, Oct 8, 2015 8 1,945
It's-A-Love-Story
How many showers?!
It's-A-Love-Story, on October 7, 2015 at 5:17 PM

I need some advice. My MOH is driving me and my mom nuts. She's pressuring my mom to have an engagement party soon. So that she can plan a shower. Then, my aunt is also wanting to plan a couples...

Meesh, Oct 8, 2015 36 131
Bailey
How to include 12 year old (excited) half sister? No Jr. Bridemaids.
Bailey, on October 7, 2015 at 12:14 PM

I have 2 half siblings, brother (14), and sister (12). My brother is happy for me but doesn't really feel the need to be involved, where my sister is apparently really excited which is great! I see...

GreatNewHites, Oct 8, 2015 21 6,600
Rhonda
MOH trying to sabotage wedding. Bridal parties. Be very careful. Go with 1st instinct
Rhonda, on October 3, 2015 at 8:45 AM

A wk or so ago I started a thread regarding concern for my friend, and MOH being in an abusive relationship (for 1 yr), and the worry over him holding her back from attending our wedding day. I...

Rhonda, Oct 8, 2015 23 154
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Send Save the Dates to those not invited to reception?
Janice, on October 8, 2015 at 9:01 AM

There are many people who we would like to have at the ceremony, but we cannot afford to have everyone at the reception. Is it okay to do that? If so, would we send them a save the date, then have two...

moco2016, Oct 8, 2015 5 181
Bailey
Relatives I haven't seen in years... How to deal with family pressure?
Bailey, on October 7, 2015 at 12:26 PM

My parents divorced when I was 7, and it wasn't pretty. My parents have always seemed civil to me, but maybe it's just because they never had to deal with each other. My family is proving to be a much...

FutureMrsBrbr, Oct 7, 2015 10 1,838
LAURA
Great place in downtown Detroit for Bridal Suite
LAURA, on October 5, 2015 at 1:29 PM

Looking for a great place downtown that has suites large enough to get ready in and have as our Suite the night of the wedding - a place that is bright and may be used for our "first Look" even if we...

Claudia, Oct 7, 2015 2 71
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Venue for under $500
Lolita, on October 6, 2015 at 4:31 PM

Does antoje know of a venue for under $500? I know it sounds a little ridiculous but I have a very small budget and I don't want to go over if I don't have to. I have found two places that are...

Ashlei, Oct 7, 2015 29 4,178
FutureMrs.G
Billing Guest for Missing the Wedding
FutureMrs.G, on October 5, 2015 at 7:51 AM

I was listening to the radio on my way to work this morning and the hosts of one of the morning shows I listen to did a story about a wedding guest who got a bill for $75 because she had to...

bridetobe, Oct 6, 2015 30 4,920
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When to do catering tasting?
Jac3286, on October 5, 2015 at 1:21 PM

When did you do your tasting to determine your catering menu? My menu has to be set 2 months prior to the event (so early March.) I asked the coordinator at the catering company and she said we can do...

Happily Married, Oct 6, 2015 19 1,164
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Can I wear this dress to my sons wedding
Tuttsy, on October 6, 2015 at 8:36 AM

I fell in love with & bought this dress to wear to my sons wedding, but my sister tells me any white at all is taboo. It is a tropical beach wedding so light colours seem most appropriate. Please...

Niki, Oct 6, 2015 37 1,562
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Cleaning morganite engagement ring?
Ashlei, on October 6, 2015 at 12:01 PM

My FH gave me the most beautiful peach morganite stone set in a rose gold band. The band also has 40 small diamonds around the morganite and along the sides of the stone. What is the best way to clean...

Allison, Oct 6, 2015 4 1,242
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Evening Wedding = Late Dinner
Jennifer, on October 5, 2015 at 9:58 PM

My wedding starts at 7 pm because I have always dreamed of getting married at sunset; however, I feel bad that the dinner will not be served until 9:00 pm. The guests will be able to snack on platters...

Celia Milton, Oct 6, 2015 6 182
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Is a registry necessary?
1Sooner.fan, on October 5, 2015 at 6:39 PM

The majority of our guests (aside from family) are broke college/grad students. Therefore, I don't expect them to get us anything for the wedding. I know that most of them can barely afford rent and...

TJB11616, Oct 6, 2015 13 560
AJKNin
No sneak peek plus 2 month wait = now I'm freaking out (irrationally?) about pictures!
AJKNin, on October 5, 2015 at 1:17 PM

We've been told we should expect our photos on/around the end of October, and our photographer doesn't offer a sneak peek. When we initially booked him, that seemed like a non-issue and a totally fine...

Shannon, Oct 5, 2015 16 1,960
Pinky Winter Promise
Three Buck Chuck or Three Wishes???
Pinky Winter Promise, on October 4, 2015 at 9:21 PM

Hope everyone is doing well.. I am trying to figure out what wine to serve at the wedding. (We are having wine, beer, hard cider, and probably two kids of sangria). I'm wondering if any one of you...

Pinky Winter Promise, Oct 5, 2015 16 1,142
fallbride2015
Last minute drop outs...
fallbride2015, on October 5, 2015 at 1:39 PM

So, I don't really know how I should feel about this. Wedding is Oct, sent out invitations pretty early in April with an RSVP date of August 1st. My very best friend was one of the first to respond....

Shannon, Oct 5, 2015 20 933
MrsBuildaBear
Unruly Children at the Wedding
MrsBuildaBear, on October 4, 2015 at 5:46 PM

OK.. So DH is insisting that I put his best friend's wife in the wedding as a bridesmaid. Here's the problem, their children are bad and are not well-behaved at all. My original thought process was...

MrsBuildaBear, Oct 4, 2015 20 1,150
Sarah
Thank you card wording for monetary gift
Sarah, on October 2, 2015 at 12:58 PM

We received mostly cash and checks for gifts. Saying thank you for the money sounds so wrong. What is the best wording? I want to express our thanks without being so generic. I read an article to say...

Steffany, Oct 3, 2015 4 1,788
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