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Breezy
Old friend requesting to be a bridesmaid
Breezy, on July 24, 2016 at 12:05 PM

So, Nichole and I go way back to our diaper days. My dad and her parents were all best friends. 3 years ago my dad died and she had been into really heavy drugs around then and we both weren't there...

Melissa, Jul 24, 2016 36 1,294
Lily
Not Inviting Parents
Lily, on July 20, 2016 at 9:47 PM

Is anyone else here not inviting their parents to their wedding? I was just wondering if there was anyone out there in the same boat so I could feel less alone. Growing up, my parents were both very...

Maggie, Jul 24, 2016 48 326
J
"Unofficial" Bridesmaids Gifts
Jillian, on July 24, 2016 at 10:22 AM

Hello! I am not having bridesmaids stand at my ceremony. We are doing a private ceremony and then a regular, backyard reception the following weekend. However, I still identified my closest friends as...

Elizabeth, Jul 24, 2016 5 970
sarabee
1 week before wedding... feeling sad?
sarabee, on July 23, 2016 at 8:24 PM

I'm getting married in 1 week. I was extremely excited up until today- all of a sudden, I feel sad. All the planning is done, I just finished up my summer job, and now I just don't know what to do...

Jeanine, Jul 24, 2016 16 2,142
AJlovesToast
Casual Engagement Party / Get together Guest Advice!
AJlovesToast, on July 23, 2016 at 3:29 PM

My partner and I both have jobs where we are very friendly and fond of many of our colleagues. We would love to be able to invite everyone to our wedding but we just cannot afford to. We made a deal...

Melissa, Jul 23, 2016 34 799
R&B2016
Before Ceremony Bar
R&B2016, on July 23, 2016 at 5:22 PM

I'd like to start by saying we are having an open bar for our cocktail hour and reception. We are also having a greeting station with apple cider donuts and champagne for guests before our ceremony....

Lori, Jul 23, 2016 10 126
K
Luncheon Reception/Cash Bar
Kaitlyn, on July 23, 2016 at 3:30 PM

Hey! So my fiancée and I are having a very small wedding (less than 25 people) and are planning on having a lunch reception afterwards at a local restaurant. We don't drink and neither does my family,...

Jacks, Jul 23, 2016 31 173
LauraWhit
Late invites - rude or okay?
LauraWhit, on July 22, 2016 at 1:35 PM

Hello all! I recently posted about our guest list going down from 230ish to 106ish and now I need a little more advice My fiance thinks that we should invite some more local friends, but for some...

WaffleBread, Jul 22, 2016 41 15,379
LuvBeingMarried2Him!
TIP for Event Coordinator
LuvBeingMarried2Him!, on July 22, 2016 at 6:29 AM

Hi everyone. I am having my reception a hotel and I've been working very closely with the event coordinator there in charge of my wedding. She's been absolutely delightful and has done everything to...

FutureMrsFrench, Jul 22, 2016 14 1,256
Spiff
At Home Reception after Destination Wedding
Spiff, on July 21, 2016 at 5:11 PM

I'm doing a destination wedding on a cruise next year. All of our immediate family and closest friends are going with us for the most part, but FH has a lot of extended family that will not be going....

Spiff, Jul 22, 2016 14 760
L
Bridal shower registry ideas- please help!
Lesley, on July 21, 2016 at 2:35 PM

So I live in a small apartment and will not be getting a house anytime soon so I have NO IDEA what to register for in regards to my bridal shower. My wedding isn't until next year so I have some time,...

OfficiallyMrsG, Jul 22, 2016 19 2,475
Nicole
Exchanging of the crowns
Nicole, on July 21, 2016 at 4:10 PM

My mom's side of the family is greek and growing up I always celebrated greek holidays and participated in traditions, although my family is not religious. My ceremony will not be talking place in a...

Say Cheese, Jul 22, 2016 5 1,032
AlmostMrsE
Third post because I'm freaking out!!!!!
AlmostMrsE, on July 21, 2016 at 7:51 PM

Okay okay okay. 6 days till my period. I bought a rite aid pregnancy test. However, they claim those are not accurate and have created false positives. It's SUPER faint. What do you guys think? FH is...

Mrs.G, Jul 21, 2016 28 4,792
JPB808
RANT! Guest trying to add to our headcount at the last moment!!
JPB808, on July 21, 2016 at 4:34 PM

First I had our uncle's trying to invite 2 more people where it was suppose to be only 1. Now I got my other uncle saying we may have unexpected guests (referring to my cousin, his wife and two kids)....

BeachBride, Jul 21, 2016 22 109
Kristi
Money Dance.....traditional or tacky??
Kristi, on August 22, 2011 at 5:17 PM

Ok so we are discussing whether or not to have a money dance. My fiance say's it's tacky, but my mom & pretty much everyone else who I talk to seem to think that it's ok, and in fact kind of a...

Selyn, Jul 21, 2016 26 907
Courtney
Nails done for bridal shower?
Courtney, on June 23, 2016 at 8:41 AM

Did you ladies get your nails done for the bridal shower? I'm debating whether it is worth it or not. I'm not crazy about acrylic nails since they kill your natural nail, but I was debating about gel...

Melissa, Jul 21, 2016 37 1,734
D
Hard time writing thank you to sister
Dasha, on July 20, 2016 at 3:36 PM

Hey guys... I'm not trying to be petty but I need help writing a thank you note to my sister. Background is my sister (only sibling) did not show up to my wedding and gave a rather flakey excuse and...

Dasha, Jul 21, 2016 13 1,262
JPB808
Bachelorette party gifts from bride?
JPB808, on July 21, 2016 at 3:51 AM

So my MOH (my cousin) is taking me out for my bachelorette party/get together. I really have no clue if it's just me and her, or if she's going to throw and actual party as I've been completely left...

JPB808, Jul 21, 2016 7 223
Maui K
Do I need to have a flower girl or ring bearer?
Maui K, on July 19, 2016 at 2:20 PM

I was originally not going to have anyone in the wedding party ...no bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls or ring bearers. But, I have lately been thinking about having a maid of honor and best...

MARY, Jul 21, 2016 19 220
Ashleigh
Greek Ceremony Invitation Wording
Ashleigh, on July 20, 2016 at 4:03 PM

Hi Ladies Some of you may remember me. I got married last October, and I really appreciated having the wisdom and advice you guys gave throughout the planning process. So now I'm coming to you again....

Theresa, Jul 21, 2016 8 446
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