Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

When I went to do the menu tasting we were also going over details with the wedding coordinator and one of the things she asked was how many people would be at the head table and at first my dad said...

What are your thoughts on, instead of giving my bridesmaids actual gifts, presenting them with a cute thank you card from Etsy, and inside of the card, a $100 gift card to their favorite store?...

Does anyone else feel that they don't want bridesmaids? My FH wants groomsmen (about 4) because he has grown up with a close group of guys since childhood. I only have a handful of semi-close...

FH and I are thinking setting up our wedding website and registry. The website will have information for guests about the wedding location, suggested accommodations and transit options, and things to...

So here's my question... when filling out place cards do you put one name on each place card or do you put them by couple? Like Mr and Mrs smith. Or jack frost and guest. How did you fill out yours? ...

My wedding venue doesn't allow candles or sparklers or anything for a "send off" and it will be dark when me and my FH leave... I want to do something for people to wish us luck but I don't know WHEN...

I am hurt and disappointed. Last weekend my cousin and mom put together an amazing Bridal shower the day after 4 out of 10 of my bridesmaids decided to come to my house with shirts and hats. My hat...

I'm planning a bachelorette party for a friend. We are a bridal party of 6. However, there are three other friends of the bride that were not able to participate as a bridesmaid (financial situation,...

What do I do? My Grandmother sent back her RSVP with a "sorry I can't make it." My dad offered to pick her up and take her home ( she is 85 and lives in Las Vegas) mind you she still spends her nights...

Hey yall. I was on here a couple years ago when I started planning my wedding. So I'm sure I don't know anyone still on here. But I wanted to get some advice now that my sister-in-law is getting...

I have what feels like a silly question, but I'm really not sure do here goes... do we count our professionals (DJ, photographer,planner, etc) in the head count for guests? And do we purchase a meal...

Hi guys , I was curious how much did you guys spend on your wedding all total? I know it's a weird question, but I need help. Since mother in law threatened us she won't come to our wedding, she said...

Is it bad etiquette to give gift cards as part of my bridesmaid gift? In addition to a robe and earrings for the day of plus chipping in for wedding hair (which I know don't count as a gift), I'm...

Im currently working on our wedding website and cant think of a good wedding hashtag. FH last name is Riordan. Anyone have any suggestions? Also, I have noticed that on a lot of save the dates and...

Are you supposed to give the Mother of the groom a corsage or something? I have no idea what the protocol on that. Thoughts, ideas?

I keep having this debate with my mother and I am really undecided of what I will end up doing. Both of my FSIL's are BM's and their husbands are GM. I wanted to match everyone up according to height...

Ok, I already know that I'm inviting my boss because we've known each other for 15 years. My question is, do I invite my mom's boss? She said she's not sure if I "have" to but I think I should. Here's...

Hello All! It seems that the industry standard in our areas is to pay the catering team almost $15/hour per server/chef for their service. Do we still tip?

Hi everyone! Wondering how long I should allow for our reception. We are going to get ready in the morning, have our first look at pictures at noon, then ceremony starts at 2pm. Thinking 1/2 hour ish...