Does anyone else feel that they don't want bridesmaids? My FH wants groomsmen (about 4) because he has grown up with a close group of guys since childhood. I only have a handful of semi-close girlfriends and they are scattered throughout the country and don't know each other at all. I also feel like all the traditions that go along with having a wedding party (i.e. bachelor/bachelorette parties) are so cheesy and unnecessary. Im not having a bridal shower. In addition, having a bridal party is expensive. Not sure what to think and have to make decisions soon. Thoughts?