Don't want bridesmaids

There's no need to have a wedding party. Would your FH be OK without groomsmen? If not, it would look a little strange to have four groomsmen standing next to him and no one standing next to you. Perhaps you could find other wedding things for one or two of the men to do, such as a reading.

I'm not having one either. FH has 8 brothers and I don't have nearly enough girls to pair them off with (plus, he doesn't want to have to choose). We ended up deciding to have each of his brothers with their long-term gfs/wives/kids walk down as a family unit, followed by my brother escorting my mom and then me and my dad. I know these guys aren't necessarily his brothers, but you could have them and their S.O.s walk down or you guys could just decide to go the strictly family route. You do have options though! Hope that helps!

I'm only having my sister stand up with me. We where in the same boat but I talked him into just having 1 person atand with us. That also saved money for our receiption and honey moon

DF will probably have his brother as Best Man, but I'm not planning on a MOH or bridesmaids. Not a big deal to me.

We aren't having a bridal party, and neither did my brother and his wife!

We aren't having a bridal party. We are trying to have a small wedding and if we had a bridal party no one would be in the seats!

We didn't do one - and we are in a similar state. FuckingH bought his close guy friends matching ties - they wore whatever they wanted with them. It worked fine

I'm not having one. My 6 year old son is my FH'S best man, there's Noone standing on my side. I've been in 13 weddings and just decided that bridesmaids would complicate things. I wanted to keep it simple, and not hurt anyone's feelings. Anyways, I'll pass my bouquet off to my sister that will be sitting on the front bench at ceremony! Do what makes you happy. It's totally ok to not have bridesmaids. And if you FH has friends he has to have...you're allowed to have uneven sides.

Best decision I made was not having one

We aren't having a bridal party either, just our son and daughter.

@notthaterin... Wow tell us how you really feel your FH hahahahaha

Lots of my couples have no BP. Less stress, money and BS.

I didn't want bridesmaids and FH had like 6 guys he wanted to ask. My sister and FSIL decided they would be bridesmaids and FH ended up only asking his brother and old friend. I am not requiring my bridesmaids to do anything, they can wear whatever they want, I didn't have a shower or anything (I didn't want one). You don't have to have a bridal party and sides do not have to be even. This is totally one of those things that you get to do whatever you want. Same goes for you FH.

No bridal party here. Best decision I've made

I wish I had made this decision. I have 9 bridesmaids only because my FH HAD to have 9 guys. I love each of the girls dearly and we are close, but I had this awesome idea of just having us up front and no BP, allowing everyone to not spend money on dresses or renting tuxes. I hate wasting money. While they will look good, they're never going to wear this stuff again.

We are having only a MOH & BM. No ring bearer, flower girl or any other BP. I have been a bridesmaid 5 different times and truthfully, i enjoy weddings more as a guest. Our friends are still involved in other wedding related activities but we both don't necessarily love the "pageantry" of weddings. Not all of our family members agreed with us, but at the end of the day we are doing what we want to do.

I'm not having a bridal party either. It seems like such a hassle to me. Lol

I didn't want a bridal party and that's exactly what we are doing. It's the best way to go IMO. I've had bad luck with previous weddings and I didn't want the drama. I have some close friends who will be with me when I get ready but other than that, all the attention will be on me.

Not having one. Much simpler.

No bridesmaids for me..however, FH is having his dad be his best man. Also, no flower girl or ring bearer, either. So much easier.