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Mother of groom/ step mother of groom
Andrea, on February 14, 2017 at 1:12 AM

Hi everyone, So for my future mother-in-law and step-mother of my fiancée I am thinking about getting them tote bags (with their names on it) and make up bags (with their names on it. I was also...

Holly, Feb 14, 2017 5 293
Kashawn
Hosted bar
Kashawn, on February 13, 2017 at 10:36 PM

I have a question and I know it may be a bit of a hot topic here so please go easy on me as I want to ensure I'm doing what's right before everything is finalized. I'm not too familiar with wedding...

The Trap Selena, Feb 14, 2017 25 548
Del
Extremely uncomfortable wedding
Del, on February 13, 2017 at 8:49 AM

I posted earlier about going to a wedding in which we were expected to pay in cash for own dinners. I have now returned from that wedding. It sucked. The vibe was so bad. During the cocktail hour,...

Danielle, Feb 14, 2017 141 804
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Step sister/ bridesmaid chaos
Jessica, on February 13, 2017 at 11:42 PM

I currently have 6 and two are my sisters. I've known them since I was 4 but I couldn't even tell you them their middle names. I asked them to be bridesmaids as fillers. And hoping it would make us...

Powers2, Feb 14, 2017 8 226
Katie
Mom keeps inviting people to my wedding :/
Katie, on February 12, 2017 at 3:51 PM

We have a lot of very close friends we're inviting that we're in contact with at least 3 or 4 times a week. So they have priority on our guest list over cousins I haven't seen or talked to in years....

Katie, Feb 14, 2017 14 1,847
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Guests who do not RSVP but show up
Krista, on February 13, 2017 at 3:50 PM

We have an RSVP deadline for our destination wedding at the end of February. Some told other guests that they are going to wait to November to see if its cheaper and book last minute. The wedding...

A. L., Feb 13, 2017 67 623 1
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Who is paying (or paid) for the alcohol at your wedding?
Lois, on July 14, 2015 at 4:01 PM

My fiance and seem to have reached agreement on this finally, but I do want to know what's the normal practice in terms of providing alcohol to guests at a venue? Our venue prohibits outside alcohol....

Lisa, Feb 13, 2017 83 6,553
Jenny
Different cultures/ Different Traditions
Jenny , on February 12, 2017 at 10:40 PM

Hi everyone! So just by way of introduction, I am Irish and getting married in Portugal this September to my Fiance Mark. We are both 31 and have been together for 11 years. I want to preface this...

Jenny, Feb 13, 2017 22 122
Anne
Food Allergies/Preferences
Anne, on February 13, 2017 at 10:53 AM

My dad is diabetic, my cousin is allergic to gluten. My lawyer and his wife are vegetarians. I know these things and am making accommodations for their food at the reception. That accounts for 4...

SLR, Feb 13, 2017 13 2,168
Bonnie
Help. Should my 15 year old 5/6 son be a jr groomsmen or groomsmen
Bonnie, on February 13, 2017 at 12:44 AM

I have found myself stuck. I have a 15 year son who is 5/6 and a male godchild who is 13 years old 5/2. I decided to make them jr groomsmen. Here's the confusing part i asked my two cousins who are a...

Lovecat, Feb 13, 2017 9 919
Caitlin
HOW TO ANNOUNCE DISFUNCTIONAL FAMILY AT RECEPTION
Caitlin, on February 3, 2016 at 11:24 AM

LONG STORY ALERT: So, my fiance's parents are divorced, both have remarried, mother divorced again, and currently single. Ex-stepfather is still in the picture, has has been considered stepfather even...

sara, Feb 13, 2017 25 3,928
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Sweat running down legs
Jessica, on February 12, 2017 at 10:47 PM

I tried on my dress for alterations and was sweating like crazy. I am wearing boots for my wedding with socks. What do you recommend to put on my legs to help with the sweating?

VegasWed!, Feb 13, 2017 10 824
Nikki
Officiant Cost?
Nikki, on January 5, 2017 at 10:05 AM

My first marriage I was married in a church and gave a donation of $300.00 after the wedding. I was super surprised that most officiants I have checked into are about $500! Is this...

Jessica, Feb 12, 2017 41 12,205
Anna
Two Maids of Honor?!
Anna , on January 21, 2014 at 3:48 PM

Help! Okay so there are two best friends I want to each be my MOH. We have been friends since we were 4 (we are all now 23 and 24). We were the trio of the neighborhood, we did everything together. I...

Angela, Feb 12, 2017 27 12,011
Meaghan
Groomsman gift ideas (not the usual flask)
Meaghan, on February 9, 2017 at 10:21 PM

Any groovy ideas for groomsmen gifts? I think FH wants to personalize this by buying each guy something he's personally interested in/needs/is a fan of, etc. which I think is cool. But any other ideas...

B&T2Be, Feb 12, 2017 38 157
MrsRidley
"Tell everyone to bring monetary gifts only!"
MrsRidley, on February 12, 2017 at 10:22 AM

FH and I decided we are going to have the wedding we (I) want, that is having the reception in a gorgeous Ballroom. This decision came after about a month of indecisiveness and many unforeseen...

Miranda, Feb 12, 2017 8 465
AKCouple
Anyone Else? Father/Daughter Dance Feels
AKCouple, on February 12, 2017 at 9:10 AM

I've always been a daddy's girl, but more in a tomboy sort of way. We were always really close but more like a father and son relationship (I was really athletic, he was always found on the sidelines...

AKCouple, Feb 12, 2017 10 1,258
Linds
Talking with your guests
Linds, on February 11, 2017 at 2:24 PM

I know the typical ways to talk with guests are table visits and receiving lines, and sometimes releasing your guests from the ceremony - however I'm not sure any of those are exactly what we're...

ToBeMrsWatson, Feb 12, 2017 20 125
Erin
Who gets an invite to the rehearsal and dinner?
Erin, on February 11, 2017 at 9:05 PM

Title says it all.. right now I have everyone in the wedding party, parents, grandparents, and flower girls and ring bearers and their parents. I also need to figure out which family member I will...

Chip, Feb 12, 2017 12 667
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2 matron of honor
Naomi, on February 11, 2017 at 12:21 AM

Is it possible to have 2 matron of honor?? And I say matron because they are both married.. they both have done so much for me.. one is my blood sister and the other is my soon to be sister in law

AlmostMrsA, Feb 12, 2017 10 2,103
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