Groom doesn't want bride to see his outfit?

Oh boy. If this was my fiancé, he'd show up in a neon orange suit and lightning bolts shaved into his beard. I hope you trust his sense of style!

My FH is kind of in the same boat. I gave him guidelines of colors he needs to wear to match the rest of our wedding, but he wants to surprise me with it all at the same time I surprise him with my dress.

My FH jokes about this but in the end I was with him when he ordered his suit. It will be made to fit so it will look different. I think he was serious at first but then when the time came he was overwhelmed and wanted my help picking it out.

My FH insisted on picking out my dress so I let him. But in reality I had already found my dress and it wasn't the one he chose. He won't even remember by August

My dad was joking with me about this. He said, how come your dress is a secret, but you get to see his tux? (FH and I went to Mens Wearhouse together).

ETA: It is definitely more rare, because FWs usually help pick out the groomsmen outfits to coordinate with the BMs. And the groom usually has some level of coordination with the groomsmen.

If you trust his sense of style, then it'll be fine.

My FI is taking this stance and it is starting to worry the hell out of me. He has many fine qualities, sense of fashion is not one of them. He also has no ability to judge the overall style of the wedding. If we were doing tuxes it would worry me less, but it's a less formal affair so guys will be in nice, new suits, which have more potential for color and style disaster. I made him promise to take someone who's opinion I trust who can provide a veto on my behalf on anything horrible.

My FH insists he knows nothing about what I'm wearing, but he also insisted that I was with him when he got his suit.

I think that FH should be allowed to wear whatever he wants (within reason). I'm not going to be there when FH picks out his suits. I trust that he isn't going to go crazy.

He should be able to wear whatever he will be comfortable in.

My DH attempted this. He insisted on going to the suit shop himself to choose his own suit so it would be a surprise, and was so overwhelmed with making the choice he came home and got me so I could come back with him and advise him. It was pretty cute actually.

As long as you trust his sense of style, I say let it go. Let him have it. It's his day too and you'll have one less thing on your plate.

You are lucky, my FH wants me to pick out his and the GM's attire. I would happily hand the duty off to him if he wanted it. One less thing to worry about, as long as he is good with coordinating colors ofcourse.

DH did this! I wasn't keeping him from seeing the dress and details, he said he didn't want to. So when he was going in to look at tuxedos, I said since he doesn't want to see my wedding ensemble, I didn't want to see his. We both have sophisticated style so I wasn't worried at all. We showed each other our shoes, but that's it. And he was very excited about his tux when he came home after ordering.

FH keeps saying he wants to wear a tuxedo shirt and shorts so there's no way I'd let him choose an outfit without me seeing. I don't think he'd buy that, but I'd be worried he'd get something else that's not the best thing. He hates clothes shopping though and is not looking forward to going with me so I doubt he'd ever ask to do it on his own. As long as you trust your FH though and he plans on putting some thought into it then I say let him do it.

I've never heard of this but it might give me a minor heart attack lol. I went with my FH to help him pick out his outfit.

I went suit shopping with FH so I know exactly what he is wearing but he hasnt and will not see my dress til the first look. He pretty much knows everything else I'm wearing but not the dress

We are the opposite. I dont want to go with him and just want him to go and pick it out. He insists I come because he has no idea what he wants. He has a better sense of style than I do and I really don't feel like making more decisions, but he really doesn't want to go by himself so I'll go.

Sorry but nope. I can barely trust my guy and we are gay (sorry for the stereotype).

Anyways, you can agree so long as a TRUSTED friend goes with him to help?

I guess I don't care what FH wears as long as he is happy. If he didn't want to show me, I wouldn't be bothered.

No ma'am that's gonna be a no go for me. The groomsmen outfits need to coordinate with the bridesmaids dresses, the overall look really makes the theme of the wedding. I would not be okay with leaving it as a surprise.

My FH picked his own tux, and picked what he wanted the GM to wear. I've seen him in his tux. He looks smashing