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Just Said Yes October 2017

Father as a groomsman?

Alex, on February 13, 2017 at 6:18 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 18

What do y'all think about having my father as one of my groomsmen? My brother is my best man and my future brother in law is one of the groomsmen.


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Latest activity by LoveBird30, on February 14, 2017 at 3:07 PM
  • SSJKarigan
    VIP August 2017
    SSJKarigan ·
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    I tried to post earlier but you hid the post :/ But what I had said was that I can't see any reason not to. If that's the type of relationship you have with your father, then sure. My only concern would be that he might be stretched too thin with responsibilities, depending on his involvement in the wedding.

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  • Teresa
    Super September 2017
    Teresa ·
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    I think that's wonderful. My brother asked my dad to be one of his groomsmen and he was honored (he is my brothers stepdad).

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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2017
    Alex ·
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    @ssjkarigan. Thanks for the input. Sorry for hiding the previous post; new to this forum. I was trying to post with an image for my avatar.

    :-/

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  • Abbey
    Expert October 2017
    Abbey ·
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    My brother had his son, our dad, and our step-dad as his groomsmen. The dads loved it and everyone commented on how great it was. If you want him up there with you then do it!

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  • fsumissa
    Super March 2017
    fsumissa ·
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    My FH was going to have his dad as his best man. But we decided to not have anyone stand with us. Although I still asked my sister to be my maid of honor. You can do whatever you want.

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  • APZ
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    APZ ·
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    Not sure where you are from-but this is very very common in the (deep) south. My dad was the best man in both my brothers weddings and FFIL is FHs best man in ours.

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  • emily
    Expert July 2017
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    Neither one of our biological fathers are in the picture - but FH is having his stepdad, the man that raised him, as his Best Man. He's a man of few words but he definitely got choked up when FH asked him.

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  • SAK2SAH
    Super October 2017
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    My fh and I are having a small courthouse wedding with just our parents. We have friends, but if we invite this person, we have to invite that person, and so on.... so since we don't want a huge wedding, and we don't want hurt feelings, for our witnesses, we have asked our mothers to do the task. I think it's great that you want your dad to be there for you on the biggest day of your life!!

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  • Veep
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    Veep ·
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    That's sweet!

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  • Celia Milton
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    I have a number of dads in bridal parties. I love it

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  • lyla
    Master July 2017
    lyla ·
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    I think it's awesome.

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  • BeautifulQueen2b
    Expert March 2017
    BeautifulQueen2b ·
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    Who will walk you down?

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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2017
    Alex ·
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    Wow. You guys. Thank you so much for setting me at ease. What a wonderful community of helpful individuals.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    If you want to - go for it!! My husband's best man was his father!

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
    Mrswelch ·
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    My Mom is matron of honor so I say if you feel your relationship is that strong then go for it!

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    If you want him as a groomsman, go for it! I see nothing wrong and think its sweet!

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  • EarlieCat
    Super December 2016
    EarlieCat ·
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    My husband had his father as his best man. He was the only one in the wedding party.

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  • LoveBird30
    Super April 2017
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    I love the idea! My mom is my matron of honor :-)

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