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SoonToBeASlabaugh
Questions to ask Rehearsal Dinner Site!
SoonToBeASlabaugh, on February 8, 2017 at 8:48 AM

Hi friends! So FMIL lives in Clarkston which is about 2 hours away from Grand Rapids, where FH and I live and where our wedding will be. She doesn't know the area very well, so she's asked us to give...

SoonToBeASlabaugh, Feb 8, 2017 1 361
Trish
Reception- assigned seating or not
Trish, on February 8, 2017 at 6:59 AM

I was thinking about not having assigned seating at the reception. I would have reserved tables for the family members and then let everyone else sit where ever they want. Is this wrong?

Nonna T, Feb 8, 2017 17 565
Silverlava
Ring sent for resizing
Silverlava, on February 7, 2017 at 1:53 AM

I dropped my ring off for resizing today--unfortunately with the cold weather and my weight loss, it is a full size, almost a size and a half, too big. Now, even more unfortunately, I won't be getting...

samantha, Feb 7, 2017 26 1,320
SarahHoff
Love Letter and Wine Box Ceremony Ideas?
SarahHoff, on February 7, 2017 at 11:22 AM

Is anybody planning on doing one of these? I love the idea of them but I have a dilemma. Neither FH or I like wine (or whisky which I have seen as an alternative). So i am looking for another idea to...

Erica, Feb 7, 2017 9 847
Jessica
Announcing Elopement
Jessica, on February 7, 2017 at 5:04 PM

We were married with our parents and immediate family in our backyard during the holidays (yay!) We created albums with photos for our grandparents to let them know, but still haven't told extended...

Katherine, Feb 7, 2017 5 189
found my prince
Inexpensive Liquor brand suggestions
found my prince, on February 7, 2017 at 3:47 PM

Hi everyone! We are supplying our own alcohol and hired a Bartender What inexpensive brands of vodka and tequila are good but not tacky? Tequila being the most important since lots of our guest are...

Lauryn, Feb 7, 2017 10 87
EndofaDarrah
To throw an engagement party or not??
EndofaDarrah, on February 7, 2017 at 3:40 AM

So FH and I got engaged on 10/12/16 and have yet to throw an engagement party. With the holidays and his huge family that throws birthday parties and such nearly every weekend we haven't really had a...

MrsLaurenRenee, Feb 7, 2017 14 156
A.L.S.
Reasonable time for Etsy vendors to reply?
A.L.S., on February 6, 2017 at 3:20 PM

I messaged this shop Thursday and still no reply. It's for our cake topper and the shop has good reviews .

Alicia v., Feb 7, 2017 15 1,187
Emily
Help with wording on bringing extra guests
Emily, on February 6, 2017 at 5:30 PM

Our venue is downtown, so they get a list from us of all the guests so we don't have anyone wander in. If someone that isn't on the list shows up, they come and check with the bride or groom to see if...

FME, Feb 7, 2017 17 2,464
C
Long Engagement Advice?
Caity, on February 6, 2017 at 4:59 PM

Hello, Wedding Wire! I'm recently engaged, and I'm new to the fiancé life (: However, because my FH is just starting the process of buying a house, we decided to play it safe and plan our wedding for...

Sarah, Feb 6, 2017 17 117
Linda
Pregnant Bridesmaid
Linda, on February 3, 2017 at 11:25 AM

So one of my bridesmaids just told me shes pregnant! which is awesome news i know shes going to be the best mom ever and im so ecstatic for her. My question is what do we do now, Their dresses have...

Mariah, Feb 6, 2017 38 2,087
FutureMrsAF
Is the service fee considered a tip?
FutureMrsAF, on February 6, 2017 at 8:27 PM

I feel like this might be a dumb question, however our catering has a service charge of 22% and a sales tax of 9.something%, for the service fee, is that considered their tip? or is it necessary to...

MrsDrum, Feb 6, 2017 24 15,666
Nicole2017
This is what happens when you ask for cash from your guests...
Nicole2017, on February 6, 2017 at 3:17 PM

...you end up in a Miss Manners column! Gotta admit, I never heard of this before....

E&E2017, Feb 6, 2017 43 110
LastJuneBride
Who signed the venue contract?
LastJuneBride, on February 6, 2017 at 1:43 PM

Was it you? Your FS? Somebody else? How much does it matter?

LolliPOP, Feb 6, 2017 36 3,405
M
Invitation wording - Adults only
Meredith , on February 3, 2017 at 6:42 PM

Can anyone recommend the proper way to address adults only on the invitation? I thought about just addressing the invite to the adults, but feel like it leaves gray area and don't want to risk people...

Natasha, Feb 6, 2017 8 421
Amy E.
No Maid of Honor or Best Man
Amy E., on January 26, 2017 at 10:08 PM

Just looking for thoughts. My fiance and i do not want to pick just one of our friends to the the MOH or BM. We just want to have Maids of Honor and Best Men. Is that ok or should we define roles?

Michael V, Feb 6, 2017 18 7,151
BC42917
SO Frustrated! *UPDATE** Am i wrong?
BC42917, on February 3, 2017 at 3:38 PM

So around mid August FH and I went to my catholic church to get everything started to proceed with the marriage prep. Well around early September we went to take a FOCCUS test and they said they were...

KYbride, Feb 6, 2017 21 157
Lauryn
Help with invitation wording - divorced parents hosting
Lauryn, on February 6, 2017 at 9:37 AM

My parents are hosting our wedding and are very traditional so want to do the " mom & dad request the honor of your presence at the marriage of..." but unsure of how to list their names. They are...

karen, Feb 6, 2017 11 252
MandJ0526
Inviting co-workers... yay or nay?
MandJ0526, on January 31, 2017 at 5:22 PM

As my FH and I begin making our guest list, I'm torn about inviting my co-workers or not to our wedding. I work in a close knit cardiac cath lab unit in a hospital; we go to happy hours together and...

Vicki, Feb 6, 2017 23 238
MandMHoagland
Asking Jr. Groomsman
MandMHoagland, on February 5, 2017 at 10:54 AM

The jr groomsman we are planning to have in the wedding is currently in 8th grade. I've been trying to come up with a cute way to have my fiance ask him to be in the wedding but other than a box of...

Jo, Feb 6, 2017 1 149
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