We were married with our parents and immediate family in our backyard during the holidays (yay!) We created albums with photos for our grandparents to let them know, but still haven't told extended family/friends. Are elopement announcements mailed sufficient? Or should we individually call our family members and friends? I'm stuck in between "who really cares that much - fun to know but not life altering for them" and "what if they do care/feel insulted we didn't tell them in person". I asked my immediate family and they suggested a Facebook announcement and I face palmed so hard my neck must be permanently bent.