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Armpit Fat
Asheanus, on September 21, 2017 at 3:40 PM

8 days til my wedding and now I have arm pit fat. Put my wedding dress on one last time and bam, I looked for ways to hide or tape but I'm not finding any solutions my dress has been taken in 5 times...

JerseyGirl, Sep 22, 2017 12 4,174
Mary
Sunday evening receptions
Mary, on September 20, 2017 at 11:38 PM

What are your experiences? I've always been used to Sunday weddings because of my religion. FH's family finds them to be really odd and inconvenient (his family comes from a different religious...

Stephanie, Sep 22, 2017 38 652
FutureMrsHancock
Meeting half way?
FutureMrsHancock, on September 21, 2017 at 4:08 PM

Just seen on tv (TLC's 4 weddings) the groom and bride met in the middle of the aisle FOB "gave her away" there it was different, but kinda cute, kinda weird and unique....question is has any one...

FutureMrsHancock, Sep 21, 2017 13 1,871
NeLeibelToBe
Send off-same night clean up!
NeLeibelToBe, on September 21, 2017 at 3:30 PM

So we have a dilemma and we aren't sure how we want to handle it so I thought I would get opinions/see how others have handled similar situations! So our venue contract states that the dj must finish...

Mrsbdg, Sep 21, 2017 29 1,153
Monica
10 wks too early for invites?
Monica, on September 21, 2017 at 8:18 AM

So I would really like to send invites at 10 weeks and give 4 weeks for RSVP so that I can do seating charts early and not be spazzing out 2 weeks before my wedding. One of my friends said this was...

Asta, Sep 21, 2017 11 537
Alexandra
Tipping florist and baker?
Alexandra, on September 20, 2017 at 3:24 AM

I'm going over the last minute details and putting together my tips for my DOC to handout on the wedding day. Should I tip my baker and florist? They're independent businesses (so not through the...

Christy, Sep 21, 2017 14 7,959
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Bridal shower- non traditional?
Michelle, on September 21, 2017 at 12:29 AM

I really do not want a traditional bridal shower. I can't standdd them. And I've attended many dutifully. But I do not wish that upon my friends and family. Ha they're always so uptight and boring and...

Chelsey, Sep 21, 2017 18 250
Deirdre
Corsages for my sisters?
Deirdre, on September 19, 2017 at 10:59 PM

I have 2 sisters who are 15 and 11 years older than me (same parents). Our mom died when I was 9 and they helped take care of me after she died. They are not in my BP, but I'm having them do a...

Jo, Sep 21, 2017 26 162
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Time for last dance and send off?
Taylor, on September 20, 2017 at 9:48 PM

Our ceremony is at 5:30 with reception following at the same location. What would be a good time to have our last dance and send off? I don't want the reception to be to short or long.

Kyrah, Sep 21, 2017 6 107
Carousel
Two DJs? Is this normal?
Carousel, on September 20, 2017 at 11:20 AM

Earlier this week, while I was emailing our DJ about other things for our wedding, I asked him what his meal choice was (we're doing a plated dinner and the venue/caterer asked me to get preferences...

Carousel, Sep 20, 2017 26 1,236
Meg
Bridesmaid dilemma (and sister problems)
Meg, on September 20, 2017 at 4:50 PM

I have always imagined my two sisters being my bridesmaids. They are both younger than me, and over the years, we have grown apart. The younger of the two is now 17, and she has the attitude to match....

Stephanie, Sep 20, 2017 16 1,050
JaMiCK
How Much For A Dessert Table?
JaMiCK, on September 19, 2017 at 5:51 PM

We're having a dessert table for our 200 guests...our desserts include: - cupcakes - donuts - bibingka (filipino mochi) - cascaron (filipino sweet sticky rice balls) - puto (filipino sweet rice cake)...

m&j18, Sep 20, 2017 7 5,164
Abbigail
Half Siblings in the Bridal Party
Abbigail, on September 20, 2017 at 4:39 PM

Hi! My FH's mom and biological father have never been married and were not together for very long. He didn't even know who his father was until he turned 18 and came to college, but has since spent a...

rica, Sep 20, 2017 6 97
Erica
Ceremony and Reception in Same Place
Erica, on September 18, 2017 at 1:57 PM

My fiancé and I booked a venue that we absolutely love. It's a big room with lots of windows and natural light. We are going to have the ceremony and reception following each other in the same place....

The Future Mrs. Hugh, Sep 20, 2017 28 11,796
Nonna T
Carolyn Hax: the no gift question
Nonna T, on September 20, 2017 at 8:00 AM

Dear Carolyn: My wife and I were married a year ago. We were slightly surprised at the number of guests who’d never sent a wedding gift, around 10 percent of those who attended. We now have a...

Kiera, Sep 20, 2017 19 244
Kelsey
Welcome Party Invite Question
Kelsey, on September 20, 2017 at 11:34 AM

Hi there! We are having a somewhat of a destination wedding in Vermont, with all our guests being from MA/NY. We're opting to have a Welcome to VT party at a local brewery instead of a traditional...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Sep 20, 2017 5 358
Whippppss
Non bridesmaids at Bach party?
Whippppss, on September 19, 2017 at 4:54 PM

I'm about to announce/ask my bridesmaids. Because I'm having a small DW I've only chosen 2 ladies to stand by me. This is a ways off but it got me thinking....When it comes to the bachelorette party,...

Chelsey, Sep 20, 2017 24 1,511
Kati
How to handle vendors that messed up?
Kati, on September 18, 2017 at 10:06 PM

I can't stop thinking about a couple of my vendors that messed up. The wedding is over so nothing can really be done but I'm wondering if I should say/do something? Our DJ played the wrong song for me...

Cassidy, Sep 20, 2017 20 1,692
PH03N1X
Tipping with a Check?
PH03N1X, on September 20, 2017 at 1:07 AM

We are 8 days away from the wedding and somehow in my budget I COMPLETELY forgot to set aside wedding tips! I know this is my fault, but I can't go backwards and there's nothing I can cut at this...

Rosered, Sep 20, 2017 10 146
tomsluv08
Is there a polite way to ask for GIFT CARDS/CASH??
tomsluv08, on March 4, 2011 at 12:19 PM

I know this topic has probably been covered....This is assuming that people are bringing a gift - we would be thankful for anything... But my fiance and I are moving out of state as soon as we take...

Michelle, Sep 20, 2017 32 39,523
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