Non bridesmaids at Bach party?

Not rude at all! I've gone to a bunch of bachelorette parties as a friend and not a bridesmaid. Several of the girls who came to mine weren't bridesmaids either.

Deff not rude to me.

I had non bridesmaids at my bachelorette party! I don't think it's rude at all.

I had friends other than my WP at my bach--2 of my BMs were planning it and asked me for a list of who to invite. i've gone to a few bach parties over the years for weddings i wasn't in--i think the real key is don't invite anyone who isn't invited to the wedding.

As long as they are invited to your wedding. My mom is throwing mine and asked me who I wanted there and I gave her several people who aren't in the BP

I'm having a DW too. Instead of having a separate bach party vacation, both me and my FH are planning on having a party at the destination 2 nights before the wedding and invite anyone and everyone who is in town. All our friends and family live all over the country/world, so this is the best way we can think to get everyone in a room at the same time.

Are they invited to the wedding? You don't invited people to anything if they're not invited to the wedding.

Not rude!! All the bachelorette parties I've been to included non BM's. A couple of those weddings were small destination where not everyone was invited to the wedding. I was just glad to get to celebrate with my friends.

A bachelorette party is not like a shower. The goal is to hang out with your friends and have a good time. It is not rude to invite more people.

Not rude as long as they're invited to the wedding!

My bachlorette party is hosted my one bridesmaid who is a friend from college. She is the only bridesmaid coming to the party; the rest of the guests are college friends. It's just how it worked out with who my bridal party consists of.

Totally not rude! I actually think it's fun to involve other friends- the more the merrier, and sometime cheaper, too! I have attended many as just a friend, and plan to invite many friends to mine as well.

I don't think so! Since I'm having a small bridal party I'm hoping that I can invite some of my other girlfriends/guyfriends to the bachelorette activities.

I had my bridesmaids and other friends, who happen to be married to the groomsmen. It was a lot of fun! They have to be invited to the wedding like others have said.

Only rude if they're not invited to the wedding.

Definitely not. I've definitely been invited to bachelorette parties of friends who I was not part of the bridal party and bachelorette parties I've hosted as a member of the wedding party that included friends of the bride who weren't in the wedding party. I'm definitely inviting a bunch of friends to my bachelorette party who aren't in the wedding party. All my girlfriends want to celebrate a fun night out with me and understand I have a lot of friends and don't want a huge wedding party. I'm sure your friends will feel the same way.

Definitely not rude or weird. The more the merrier

Not at all! I went to a bach party where I was the only non-bridesmaid and it didn't bother me at all. People should understand that you just can't pick everyone.

Not rude at all. I was invited to my cousin's bachelorette party even though I wasn't a bridesmaid. When the time comes just let your friends and bridal party know that you want to invite non-bridesmaids as well. Depending what you do for your bachelorette party it could lower costs for everyone with more people invited.

Nope not rude. I just had my bach last weekend and I had 4 ladies not in the wedding there. We had a blast.