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Bride2B
Not inviting old friends when you weren't invited to their wedding
Bride2B, on January 31, 2018 at 11:42 AM

So I'm getting married in June in my college city (I currently live much further away then I would like from it). I invited the people I was closest with (like the people I've seen since, or the...

Mrs._S, Jan 31, 2018 9 2,011
alexisdemetra
Big Concert on my Wedding Day!
alexisdemetra, on January 31, 2018 at 9:37 AM

Hello everyone! Have an interesting situation I'd love some advice on. My wedding date is November 3rd, and I just heard that Chris Stapleton is playing a huge concert nearby on the same date. I live...

LeeAnne, Jan 31, 2018 12 1,358
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What to do about a crappy groomsman?
Morgan, on January 31, 2018 at 1:05 PM

My fiance is a really nice person to the point where he lets people walk all over him at times. His groomsmen are some of his "best friends" (I say this in quotes because they haven't been very...

Amanda, Jan 31, 2018 6 983
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How to Manage Children/childcare for the Wedding
Kori, on January 31, 2018 at 4:38 AM

Hi all, I’ve been pretty good about the planning process so far, but I feel so stressed in anticipation of the actual day (and we are a year out...)! One of the biggest issues I’m having is with my...

O, Jan 31, 2018 6 444
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Online rsvp vs Snail Mail
Tasha, on January 30, 2018 at 2:25 PM

HI all - I am currently trying to decide if I should send RSVP cards w/ stamped envelopes or if I could just do an online RSVP. What are you doing and why?

Casey, Jan 31, 2018 16 1,237
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What to donate to officiant?
Christi, on January 31, 2018 at 11:08 AM

We have booked my fiance's pastor and his wife to officiate our wedding. They have very special meaning to us as they pulled my fiance out of a very dark place a few years ago and saved his life. They...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Jan 31, 2018 4 524
rica
Kids can come to the shower?
rica, on January 31, 2018 at 9:27 AM

I'm working on the guest list for my bridal shower to hand over to the hosts soon, and I am inviting 3 of my friends who have small children. We are not inviting children to the wedding, but I want to...

rica, Jan 31, 2018 7 2,514
AugustBride
Brother-sister dance?
AugustBride, on January 30, 2018 at 12:49 PM

Hi everyone~ So we are having the usual first dance, father daughter and mother son dance. My mom has also made it very clear that she would like for me to dance with my brother. He is my only brother...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Jan 31, 2018 13 3,983
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Kegs or cans?
Rebecca, on January 30, 2018 at 5:52 PM

Planning a laid back rustic wedding. It is not very formal, no catering or anything like that. We are only allowed to have liquor so we are providing beer and wine. Should we allow guests to self...

starsinwaves, Jan 30, 2018 10 435
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Firing my Moh??
Elizabeth , on January 30, 2018 at 2:21 PM

I picked my best friend to be my maid of honor, like we had been discussing for years now, she's the only person I could imagine filling that role. Right before I got engaged, she started dating her...

Jess, Jan 30, 2018 54 1,246
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Serving alcohol on family land or byob
Chase, on January 29, 2018 at 8:40 PM

My wedding is going to be at my house, therefore we have to provide our own beer and wine. My dad is worried about being sued if someone were to get into an accident leaving our property and wants to...

Toni, Jan 30, 2018 20 4,413
Kristina
Bachelorette Party Dilemma - Pregnant Maid of Honor
Kristina, on January 30, 2018 at 1:47 PM

Hi Everyone! I would love some advice. My original bach party plan had been to go to FL in July (I live in Chicago). I recently found out my MOH is pregnant, and won't be able to fly after mid-May....

Heather, Jan 30, 2018 9 1,415
Blaine
Bridal Shower and No Registry?
Blaine, on February 22, 2015 at 6:00 PM

For those people that are not having a registry, are you still having a bridal shower? Are you expecting to get cash? I just got a bridal shower invitation that says "monetary gifts appreciated" on...

Maidee, Jan 30, 2018 17 11,989
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Guest list and proper way to say "limited seating"
Maritza , on February 8, 2013 at 5:41 PM

The children of a couple we have invited to our wedding called to congratulate us and "feel us out" for an invite. No response was given from my end and I am hoping that that was enough to send the...

Rachel, Jan 30, 2018 9 49,688 1
GrnSubmarine
Thank you note for boss after you're let go
GrnSubmarine, on January 29, 2018 at 3:30 PM

Well this sure is complicated! I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short and sweet. We got married in Nov, one of our guests was DH's boss who gave us a very generous gift. One month later, he let...

Stacey, Jan 30, 2018 23 933
LibraryBelle
Bridal portraits after the wedding
LibraryBelle, on January 29, 2018 at 4:42 PM

Due to unforeseen circumstances (weather, tardiness, etc), we did not get a chance to do as many of the photos we wanted for our wedding and we are doing a redo next month. We're going to a different...

Bride2B, Jan 30, 2018 4 564
Liesl
Bridal shower Thank you cards
Liesl, on January 29, 2018 at 2:54 PM

I designed our wedding invitations myself and am planning on having a local printer print our invitations for us. The price is so good and way less than I was budgeting for! (Initially I asked Staples...

earias, Jan 30, 2018 8 580
BecomingMrsR
What is the best way to convey no children on an invitation without being rude?
BecomingMrsR, on May 17, 2016 at 2:52 PM

We're doing an adults only event (really though its 16 and above), and I would like to know what's the best way to state, no children on an invite? If at all? Is word of mouth best? Thanks!

Amanda, Jan 30, 2018 19 2,373 1
RustyTheDog
What would be THE MOST RUDE/TACKY THING at a wedding?
RustyTheDog, on October 19, 2017 at 11:55 PM

Since we all have some pretty strong options on what NOT to do at weddings, let's share! If you could only choose one thing that would be the tackiest or rudest thing to happen at a wedding what would...

Cassidy, Jan 30, 2018 134 11,290 1
steebsthegreat
Attire for guest at wedding after party...
steebsthegreat, on January 27, 2018 at 1:45 PM

My cousin is having a courthouse wedding this afternoon followed by a small reception. He only invited a small handful of people to these two events. I am invited to tonight's after party at a local...

Emily, Jan 29, 2018 14 7,762
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