So I have several people that sent/gave us money through my parents. Some were invited and came to the wedding. Others just gave money even if they weren't invited because "that's how it's done" according to my dad (culture).
Problem is, I don't know who came to the wedding and who did not. My dad gave me the addresses for some people but not others (he doesn't know their addresses). Their invitations weren't mailed out - they were hand delivered by my dad.
He's also lost track / doesn't remember who was there and who no-showed.
I don't want to send them all a generic thank you card - I'd like to say "hey thanks for coming" or "sorry you couldn't come" or just "thanks!" (if they weren't invited). I also don't want to leave anyone out.
Does this even make sense?
What do I doooo? It's been 2 months today since the wedding. All other thank you cards (our friends and family) were mailed out about a month after the wedding, I've just been stuck on these guests (about 20). I've also been procrastinating on them because I'm a terrible person!
