So I'm getting married in June in my college city (I currently live much further away then I would like from it). I invited the people I was closest with (like the people I've seen since, or the people I vacationed with while in school). If i had an unlimited budget I would invite more of them, but my guest list is already 225 with family and people i;m closer with now, like graduate school people and recent coworkers. Many of my old college friends never invited me to their weddings, which is fine, so now I don't necessarily feel the need to invite them to mine even later.
Anyway everything was great until on Facebook the other day I posted something about how expensive it was to get college transcripts, since I still need them for jobs. This one old college friend responded saying "seeing this post made me think of college! we need a reunion!" and tagged like 10 people, only half of which are invited to my wedding. Then some of the ones not invited to the wedding are posting all over my Facebook that we should have it in September. 2 of the girls who are invited live in the city, so it doesn't matter to them. 2018 will be out 9 year reunion year....I might just reply that I want to plan on coming to the 10 year official events the following year.
Maybe I'm over thinking this, I'm just getting a lot of facebook tags right now from the thread and it's causing me a bit of anxiety.