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My wedding is 6 days away!!!
Ally, on May 28, 2018 at 3:41 PM

I'm getting married in less than a week and I'm going crazy with excitement although things are tight money wise and everything is stressful I am still filled with joy. It's all definitely nerve...

Mrs.Todd, May 29, 2018 5 185
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No Kids, No Babies
Rachel, on May 22, 2018 at 2:11 PM

So I am planning a wedding that my parents are paying for. When creating the wedding invite list we gave my FH's family a set number of people to invite and if they wanted to invite more they could...

Cassidy, May 28, 2018 17 1,841
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Venue Cancelled!!!
Kendra, on May 24, 2018 at 4:19 PM

My venue just cancelled on me this morning only 85 days out from the wedding! We've had it booked for 10 months and invitations already went out. Has this happened to anyone else? If so, how did you...

Cassidy, May 28, 2018 16 3,265
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Co-maids of Honor?
Debrah, on May 25, 2018 at 8:10 PM

Is it tacky to have two maids of honor? I have two best friends and don’t want to pick one over the other. I could take the easy way out and make a family member maid of honor but I know my best...

Cassidy, May 28, 2018 18 5,329 1
Iliana
Children at wedding reception
Iliana , on April 13, 2016 at 8:19 PM

Someone please shed some light of how I should handle this. Originally, I wanted and still do want an adult only wedding. I love children don't get me wrong. My whole stance on it, is that I want my...

Julie, May 28, 2018 24 2,266
Bree
horrible sister/maid of honor problem
Bree, on May 18, 2012 at 12:23 AM

As soon as I got engaged my younger sister told me that she was my maid of honor - if I was alright with that or not. We have never been what you would call "friends" or even friendly, but I was happy...

Amanda, May 27, 2018 18 1,782
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Uninvolved Bridesmaid Dilemma
Kandace, on May 17, 2018 at 10:40 PM

I need some advice I didn't expect I would ever need. I have one bridesmaid that hasn't been involved AT ALL. She's been busy wrapping up some schooling and an internship, but she hasn't once texted...

Mandy, May 27, 2018 31 1,983
Ashley
Skip the mother and son dance?
Ashley, on May 26, 2018 at 9:12 PM

Is it common in a wedding that mother and son dance is skipped?

plangalCG, May 27, 2018 11 3,757
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Disappointed with videographer - help!
Kyle, on March 30, 2017 at 7:42 AM

We went with a friend of a friend for our videography and editing and received the video last night. We hate it. It doesn't at all (aside from the music) gel with what I initially asked for in our...

Michael, May 26, 2018 11 508
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Are you fiance's parents contributing financially to your wedding?
Erin, on May 21, 2018 at 4:09 PM

Brides, did your fiance’s family contribute to your wedding? Not sure what to do in our situation, or if there is anything I can do at this point. My family has been involved in planning our wedding...

Perla, May 26, 2018 32 6,809
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Invite to Ceremony ONLY?
MrsPtoBe, on November 21, 2011 at 4:59 PM

After reading some comments over in the thread about a girl who fed her guests very little, I got to thinking, some ladies would rather cut back on booze, meals, etc. so that they can include everyone...

Naomi, May 25, 2018 17 1,649
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Wine tasting fee delemna/etiquette advice
Terri, on May 24, 2018 at 3:37 PM

Trolley & lunch are covered by me but how can I properly tell guests that tasting needs to be paid in advance? Otherwise I pay substantial amount!

Cassandra7, May 25, 2018 20 1,100
Tamra
Friend's Wedding Guest List/ Not inviting Groom's close friends/ Friend of the bride help
Tamra, on May 22, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Ok, so my friend just got engaged! YAY! She is wanting a small ceremony at her fiance's and mom's suggestion followed by a reception dinner. The guest list is, well bride's side-heavy. What I mean is,...

Yendor, May 24, 2018 21 2,129
augustlawbride
Are you supposed to give both a shower and wedding gift?
augustlawbride, on June 5, 2017 at 12:02 PM

My mom and I were debating this about a friend's wedding I'll be attending soon. I was always under the belief you give both, but my mom says a shower gift is the wedding gift. So what do you say WW?...

Marie, May 24, 2018 33 12,402
Malei
Invite Out of Town guests and fmil to bridal shower?
Malei, on May 22, 2018 at 7:19 PM

My FMIL lives out of state and so does FH's girl cousin. They and we know that they're not going to fly into Hawaii three months before the wedding to attend my shower. His cousin specifically told...

Jenna, May 24, 2018 9 538
Monica
Bouquet: belly button or bush?
Monica, on May 23, 2018 at 12:34 PM

I've heard "bouquet to belly button" and "bush to bush" which one is it? and is it the top of your bouquet (the flowers) at the belly button/bush , or the stems at the belly button/bush ? For...

Katie M., May 24, 2018 30 2,987
Jess
International Postage
Jess, on May 23, 2018 at 11:48 AM

So I am getting ready to start putting my invites together. I will be sending two of them internationally (to Brasil). On the return RSVP envelope, I will of course be including a stamp for the return...

AD2AP, May 24, 2018 24 1,701
Ashley
Is it normal for fiance's family to pay for the wedding?
Ashley, on May 22, 2018 at 10:57 AM

I know things have been changing in the recent years. It's tradition that the bride's family paying for the wedding. However in my case, my future in laws are really awesome, they are paying for...

Soon2Bemrsb, May 23, 2018 13 1,943
Meredith
Stressed about socializing?
Meredith, on May 22, 2018 at 10:00 PM

Anyone else stressed about spending enough time with guests?? We had a shower this past weekend with about 50 guests and as amazing as it was all I can think is how limited I was in being able to...

Summer, May 23, 2018 20 1,173
Cara
Time between ceremony and cocktail hour?
Cara, on May 22, 2018 at 10:08 PM

We are having our wedding ceremony in a Catholic Church and the cocktail hour/reception at a nearby hotel ballroom. How long is too long between the end of the ceremony and the start of cocktail hour?...

MrsD, May 23, 2018 11 476
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