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Becca
Roommate invites
Becca, on December 19, 2018 at 8:41 PM

So I currently live with two roommates since my fiancé and I won’t be living together until after the wedding. I’ve known one of my roommates since June of this year and the other since September of...

H G, Dec 20, 2018 17 1,520
Kathy
"bridal suite"
Kathy, on December 19, 2018 at 12:24 PM

So heres my question. We rented out an all inclusive venue and with that comes the grooms parlor and the bridal suite. I was told by the venue to come with our hair and makeup done already before we...

Jenna, Dec 20, 2018 23 3,577
May Bride
Day after brunch-- who is invited?
May Bride, on April 11, 2016 at 12:20 PM

My mom is wondering the etiquette for hosting a post-wedding brunch and we both agreed that you would be the best authority on this. She doesn't want to be rude. Is everyone who attends the wedding...

Jane, Dec 20, 2018 11 1,241
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Not inviting my cousin
Steph, on December 18, 2018 at 12:13 AM

I get along with 95% of my extended family. However, there is one cousin that I cannot stand. I did not send him a save the date, and recently that side of the family contacted my mother to get his...

Maren, Dec 20, 2018 12 1,478
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Destination Wedding/Home Reception
Desirea, on March 31, 2017 at 10:59 AM

We are planning to have a destination wedding in Arizona and a reception at home (WA) a couple months after. The destination wedding invite list will be small (max 50). How do I not offend those that...

Michelle, Dec 19, 2018 7 313
D
2nd Marriage Invite Etiquette
Danica, on December 18, 2018 at 4:54 PM

Hello Hello! We will be getting married in about 6 months or so. This will be his first marriage, and my second marriage (I've been divorced 4 years). My question is, what do you find to be proper...

earias, Dec 18, 2018 7 1,258
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Photographer won't give us our wedding pics
Jennifer, on June 21, 2017 at 8:06 PM

Hey there! So I found this woman on theknot website with a 5 star review. She told us when we booked with her that pictures could take 6-8 weeks after wedding to be finished/edited and delivered. On...

Lesley, Dec 18, 2018 25 8,480 1
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Elopement Announcements followed by Party Invite Etiquette
Darcy, on December 17, 2018 at 6:41 PM

Hi everyone! My FH and I will be eloping to the beautiful Texas Hill Country on NYE. Our parents know, as well as close friends. We are very excited! Our current plan is to elope and then host 2...

Cassandra7, Dec 18, 2018 3 383
Melissa
Is not getting married on the hour that important?
Melissa, on December 16, 2018 at 8:58 AM

I've heard it's bad luck to get married on the hour and you should do the half hour instead. Who thinks it's really that big of a deal? My wedding will be small and I only have my venue for 4 hours...

Sherry, Dec 17, 2018 25 6,902
Lauren
My bestfriend that i want to ask to be my bridesmaid isn't supportive for my wedding
Lauren, on December 17, 2018 at 1:28 PM

Hello, I have a best friend but she has been making snarky and mean comments since I told her I got engaged. She personally doesn't like my fiance due to past conflict, but knowing that I am engaged...

Taylor, Dec 17, 2018 15 406
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Engagement party, who pays?
Jarred, on December 16, 2018 at 10:28 PM

Are engagement parties still very common? If so, will my SO and I be expected to pay for everyone’s meal if it’s at a restaurant? (We don’t have family that will be helping financially.) Also who...

Andrea, Dec 17, 2018 12 3,951
futuremrsshapard
Macy's Registry Dream Fund
futuremrsshapard, on January 26, 2017 at 3:12 PM

I recently went to Macy's to set up our registry when the woman helping asked if I had set up the dream fund, I told her no I hadn't and that I didn't know what it was. She then hooked it up to my...

Sylvia, Dec 17, 2018 25 1,949
Jean
How to address wedding invite for adult siblings living together
Jean, on December 14, 2018 at 6:18 PM

Hello! Need suggestions please: I have two adult cousins (male / female, they are brother and sister) who live together - -how do I address the invite? They have the same last name, but I can't...

Dana, Dec 17, 2018 24 11,162 2
Sharay
Too early for save the dates?
Sharay, on December 13, 2018 at 10:14 PM

My wedding is in July. I do live in a different city and state from my family. I wanted to just give them a heads up like hey there will be a wedding on this day in this city. Is it too early to send...

Joanna, Dec 14, 2018 25 379
Rachel
Honeymoon registry etiquette with a courthouse wedding
Rachel, on December 11, 2018 at 9:59 PM

Hi y'all!! I know etiquette is always changing for weddings, but I wanted to get some input and advice anyway. My FH and I are starting the wedding planning process. We both have always wanted a very...

Jen, Dec 13, 2018 12 333
Erica
At-home Reception Save the Dates?
Erica, on October 23, 2018 at 10:29 AM

Hey all! We are having an extremely small ceremony (immediate family only) in NYC and are hosting a reception back home a week later in Texas for our friends and family. We are doing a small blessing...

AQuixoticBride, Dec 13, 2018 4 144
K
Ok to ask bridesmaids to not spray tan?
Kelly, on December 11, 2018 at 3:17 PM

I'm wondering if it is okay to ask your bridesmaids to not spray/airbrush tan before your wedding. I personally hate getting fake tans and I don't think they photograph well so, I won't be getting one...

Alexandra, Dec 13, 2018 15 1,616
Future Mrs. Hosley
Differences - engagement announcement vs. STDs vs. Invitations
Future Mrs. Hosley, on December 13, 2018 at 2:24 AM

Can someone please explain to me the difference (if there even is one) between engagement announcements, save the dates, and invitations? 🤔 It would be greatly appreciated!! Thank you

Nikita, Dec 13, 2018 9 232
JLD
2 Maids of Honor
JLD, on April 20, 2017 at 1:43 PM

I am considering making my 2 best friends both maids of honor. Equally close with both of them and could see them working well together. Both are not married, so unfortunately can't do 1 maid and 1...

Autumn, Dec 13, 2018 25 2,187 1
Chelsey
Ceremony Invite but No Reception Invite
Chelsey, on June 24, 2017 at 10:00 AM

My finance and I both have large families along with church family. His dad is a Pastor, which means everyone from his church thinks they will be invited to both the ceremony & reception. We plan to...

Ashley, Dec 12, 2018 15 1,506
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