Etiquette and Advice
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So I currently live with two roommates since my fiancé and I won’t be living together until after the wedding. I’ve known one of my roommates since June of this year and the other since September of...
So heres my question. We rented out an all inclusive venue and with that comes the grooms parlor and the bridal suite. I was told by the venue to come with our hair and makeup done already before we...
My mom is wondering the etiquette for hosting a post-wedding brunch and we both agreed that you would be the best authority on this. She doesn't want to be rude. Is everyone who attends the wedding...
I get along with 95% of my extended family. However, there is one cousin that I cannot stand. I did not send him a save the date, and recently that side of the family contacted my mother to get his...
We are planning to have a destination wedding in Arizona and a reception at home (WA) a couple months after. The destination wedding invite list will be small (max 50). How do I not offend those that...
Hello Hello! We will be getting married in about 6 months or so. This will be his first marriage, and my second marriage (I've been divorced 4 years). My question is, what do you find to be proper...
Hey there! So I found this woman on theknot website with a 5 star review. She told us when we booked with her that pictures could take 6-8 weeks after wedding to be finished/edited and delivered. On...
Hi everyone! My FH and I will be eloping to the beautiful Texas Hill Country on NYE. Our parents know, as well as close friends. We are very excited! Our current plan is to elope and then host 2...
I've heard it's bad luck to get married on the hour and you should do the half hour instead. Who thinks it's really that big of a deal? My wedding will be small and I only have my venue for 4 hours...
Hello, I have a best friend but she has been making snarky and mean comments since I told her I got engaged. She personally doesn't like my fiance due to past conflict, but knowing that I am engaged...
Are engagement parties still very common? If so, will my SO and I be expected to pay for everyone’s meal if it’s at a restaurant? (We don’t have family that will be helping financially.) Also who...
I recently went to Macy's to set up our registry when the woman helping asked if I had set up the dream fund, I told her no I hadn't and that I didn't know what it was. She then hooked it up to my...
Hello! Need suggestions please: I have two adult cousins (male / female, they are brother and sister) who live together - -how do I address the invite? They have the same last name, but I can't...
My wedding is in July. I do live in a different city and state from my family. I wanted to just give them a heads up like hey there will be a wedding on this day in this city. Is it too early to send...
Hi y'all!! I know etiquette is always changing for weddings, but I wanted to get some input and advice anyway. My FH and I are starting the wedding planning process. We both have always wanted a very...
Hey all! We are having an extremely small ceremony (immediate family only) in NYC and are hosting a reception back home a week later in Texas for our friends and family. We are doing a small blessing...
I'm wondering if it is okay to ask your bridesmaids to not spray/airbrush tan before your wedding. I personally hate getting fake tans and I don't think they photograph well so, I won't be getting one...
Can someone please explain to me the difference (if there even is one) between engagement announcements, save the dates, and invitations? 🤔 It would be greatly appreciated!! Thank you
I am considering making my 2 best friends both maids of honor. Equally close with both of them and could see them working well together. Both are not married, so unfortunately can't do 1 maid and 1...
My finance and I both have large families along with church family. His dad is a Pastor, which means everyone from his church thinks they will be invited to both the ceremony & reception. We plan to...