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Save the date-what town to put?
Hannah , on January 14, 2019 at 8:16 PM

My ceremony is 5 mins from my reception but two different towns. After reading another post everyone said to put the ceremony location on the save the dates. Does this still hold true if the reception...

MrsD, Jan 15, 2019 7 962
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Letter to future husband on the Wedding Day
Anna, on January 13, 2019 at 9:10 AM

Hi all! For those of you doing letters to your future spouse, are you doing a card? Stationary paper? or a vow book of some sort? I want to be able to keep them forever, but just curious how others...

Jayla, Jan 14, 2019 8 1,213
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How would you feel about being invited to a "just married" party?
coffeeandtea1, on February 12, 2012 at 2:14 PM

For budget reasons, we're planning an immediate family only ceremony and simple luncheon the day of the wedding. But we plan on doing a "just married" party for extended family and friends. It will be...

Nancy, Jan 14, 2019 22 2,424 1
Caitlin
Wedding day timeline when ceremony and reception at same place
Caitlin, on January 14, 2019 at 10:50 AM

Hi all! FH and I are getting married at this cute little venue that has both a dance hall and an outdoor gazebo, so we are using it for both our ceremony and our reception. I've always firmly felt...

Emily, Jan 14, 2019 10 1,351
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upscale plastic dinner wear vs real china
NARDIA, on June 23, 2015 at 6:56 PM

I am trying to stay within my budget and got a few suggestions to use upscale plastic dinner wear that looks like the real deal. I am OK with the idea budget wise but not completely sold, so I am...

Jessica, Jan 12, 2019 13 168
Nonna T
When you don't want your mom at your wedding: Dear Prudence
Nonna T, on April 28, 2016 at 6:59 AM

Dear Prudence, Any suggestions on how to tell my mother that I do not want her at my wedding? She has been a mean and manipulative alcoholic my entire life. I finally stopped talking to her about two...

Alexandra, Jan 12, 2019 27 4,122
Melissa
Inviting Strangers
Melissa , on January 10, 2019 at 12:18 PM

My friend, who is also a bridesmaid, recently told me that her parents would like to offer FH and I their timeshare for our honeymoon. Her parents said to take it as a thank you for helping her out...

Emily, Jan 11, 2019 18 1,121
Jessica
Bachelorette party: People inviting themselves..advice??
Jessica, on January 10, 2019 at 11:31 AM

So I have a friend who I’m not so close with anymore..or we never really were. But she was always part of my group of friends so I invited her to the wedding because I didn’t want her to be the only...

Tori, Jan 11, 2019 17 1,258
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Bridal Party Regret
Sara, on January 1, 2019 at 9:38 AM

Hi all! Has anyone wished they would have just not had a bridal party? I feel like having one has lead to more drama than anything. I originally only wanted my sister and my fiancé to has his...

Lynne, Jan 10, 2019 9 404
SpringBride23
How to indicate meal choices?
SpringBride23, on January 6, 2019 at 10:02 PM

I was planning on doing tile placecards, but started thinking about how I could possibly indicate a meal choice if I did use the tiles. Any advice?

Gipperkm, Jan 10, 2019 12 4,184
marriedlady
Does the ring bearer actually hold the rings?
marriedlady, on August 2, 2012 at 3:36 PM

I have a question, does the ring bearer actually take the actual rings down the aisle or are they "fake" rings? Does the best man actually hold on to the real thing?

Suck, Jan 10, 2019 19 5,617
Emily
Do i Invite My mil Dress Shopping?
Emily, on January 10, 2019 at 9:08 AM

I've been torn on whether or not to invite my MIL dress shopping. My fiancee is her only child and there are moments when I can tell she's excited to have a girl in her life. I want to invite her to...

Jayla, Jan 10, 2019 24 2,928 1
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Save the dates VS Just invitations
Asheanus, on November 6, 2016 at 7:57 AM

I am getting address together for my Save the Dates but having second thoughts if I should just send invitations only. What have you all done or doing?

MIWM, Jan 10, 2019 21 3,846
Shannon
Bringing baby to wedding stuff?
Shannon, on January 9, 2019 at 11:49 PM

Do those of you with babies or kids bring them along to things regarding your wedding? (Expos, shows, venues etc) We’ve brought our son (9 months) to everything. 1. He’s very attached 2. He’s so well...

Jen, Jan 10, 2019 20 1,544
Hayley
Bridesmaid travel issues
Hayley, on January 8, 2019 at 11:58 PM

Hi! So here’s my dilemma, I have a bridesmaid flying in from the other side of the country, she knew about my wedding dates a year in advance, but was not too involved with planning, unable to make it...

Joanna, Jan 9, 2019 42 2,729
Samantha
Staggering Invitations to Limit Numbers...is it ok?
Samantha, on January 9, 2019 at 4:41 AM

We have a limited budget for our wedding but know what venue we want. It’s a destination wedding so we know not all invited will attend but we can’t agree on our expectation from nearly 20...

Kiki, Jan 9, 2019 6 635
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Venue address on invitation- important or not?
Koushi, on September 26, 2018 at 12:26 PM

Hi guys, I feel like a jerk. I put the venue name, city and state on the invitation but I didn’t put the full address of the venue. Some family members think it was important to put the address on the...

Lisa, Jan 8, 2019 16 2,976
Christine
Junior bridesmaid dyed hair teal
Christine, on January 5, 2019 at 12:05 AM

Hello! I need advice, my future sister in law who is in my wedding as a bridesmaid allowed her 12 year old daughter who is a junior bridesmaid to dye her hair teal blue. It is permanent hair dye. The...

Lauren, Jan 8, 2019 21 2,397
Erin
Scheduling Conflict With Potential moh
Erin, on January 7, 2019 at 2:37 PM

My FH and I settled on our date, church and reception hall this past weekend and I texted a few out-of-towners and my best friend (who I intended to have as my MOH) so they could know ahead of time....

Judith, Jan 8, 2019 12 1,212
Alexis
Tipping the On-site Coordinator
Alexis, on January 7, 2019 at 1:26 PM

Hey guys, just looking for some advice on etiquette here. I am wondering what the protocol is on tipping an on-site coordinator. I've done some research about tipping that seems to insinuate if there...

Jolie, Jan 8, 2019 2 1,270
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