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Children & Seating Charts
Trisha, on September 24, 2020 at 4:32 PM

Do Small Children Usually Get Put On The Seating Chart? I Have 4 Kids Who Will Need Highchairs And Idk If Im Suppose To Add Them To The Seating Chart Or Not Lol It Never Really Occurred To Me Until...

Kia, Sep 24, 2020 12 209
Suzie
Tipping for Alterations?
Suzie, on September 23, 2020 at 9:52 PM

Are you supposed to tip the alterations person? My alterations cost $670. I lost 70 pounds since purchasing my dress, so he did a LOT of work. He works at the bridal boutique where I purchased...

Suzie, Sep 24, 2020 13 5,476
Justine
Maid of Honor
Justine, on September 24, 2020 at 9:21 AM

I’m in an odd situation. When I started wedding planning I was only going to have 2 bridesmaids, my sister and one of my friends. Since there was just two of them I chose not to pick a maid of honor....

Yasmine, Sep 24, 2020 6 213
Tiannay
What to say on a wedding invitation?
Tiannay, on April 11, 2011 at 12:48 PM

So I'm thinking about putting together the wording for my invites and it not goin so well... my Fiance and I are the ones doing the wedding so no parents of or anything like that but how do i make it...

Jo, Sep 24, 2020 20 17,001
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How to decline a wedding invitation
Amanda, on July 13, 2019 at 10:28 AM

I am invited to a wedding and unable to attend. What is the etiquette on giving them a gift. Do you give them a gift still if you are not going to the wedding? If so, do you give them the same amount...

Jo, Sep 24, 2020 14 1,538
Meg
Telling your parents (and close family) you're engaged
Meg, on August 2, 2017 at 12:09 PM

I've been engaged for a few weeks now, but we decided it wasn't "official" enough to tell our families yet because we don't have the ring or the cutesy story (yet). His family would be thrilled......

Judith, Sep 24, 2020 35 19,258
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Engagement ring
Jessica, on September 23, 2020 at 6:38 AM

Has any bride out there wanted to exchange their engagement ring ( of equal value) for a different style engagement ring?

Tiger Bride, Sep 23, 2020 23 576
Mary
Guests who were sent Save the Dates but not at Covid ceremony, what do we do about sending a gift?
Mary, on September 22, 2020 at 4:55 PM

We were invited by Save the Date to a wedding. The they sent save the date for next year. Then they went ahead and had a mini ceremony on their original date. What do we as guests do about a gift and...

Leanne, Sep 23, 2020 7 262
Alexis Hosley
Working During Week-of
Alexis Hosley, on September 23, 2020 at 12:42 PM

Anyone have any tips on how to focus at work during the week of your wedding? I feel like I have so much to do that I cant focus at work and my mind is going everywhere.

Adrienne, Sep 23, 2020 7 164
Jacqueline
Flower Vendor - Any and All Advice Appreciated!
Jacqueline, on September 21, 2020 at 2:26 PM

Hello, I learned that the co-owner of the flower shop where we ordered flowers for our minimony (taking place Oct. 10th) passed away It was her and her mom who pretty much ran the whole show, from...

Jacqueline, Sep 23, 2020 4 118
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How to list someone on program that could not make it due to Covid?
Today, on September 20, 2020 at 10:02 AM

My matron of honor is unable to attend due to Covid restrictions in her state. However I still want her listed on the program. How do I place that in? I don't want people thinking she has covid or...

Day, Sep 22, 2020 6 101
Rachel
Gift for future Mil?
Rachel, on September 21, 2020 at 12:29 PM

Hi, ladies - Is it a set in stone custom to give a gift to your future MIL before the wedding? I had no idea (I’m a rookie, lol) until my future MIL tagged me in something on Facebook about a gift...

Kimberly, Sep 22, 2020 12 230
Jessica
Wedding Announcements
Jessica, on September 19, 2020 at 7:47 PM

Now that we have our photos back and we’ve gone through them, we’ve been talking about sending wedding announcements to those we couldn’t invite and extended family. I shared some pictures on social...

Erin, Sep 22, 2020 12 337
nicole
No gifts?
nicole , on September 16, 2020 at 8:53 PM

I just got married two weeks ago & we noticed a handful of people didn’t give a card/gift. Should I feel offended? Because I definitely do! I’m not trying to be greedy whatsoever.. but I NEVER go...

Janet, Sep 22, 2020 112 4,833
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Can't attend bff covid wedding
Sophie, on September 21, 2020 at 11:11 PM

Hi all. I'm here to look for advice on how to tell my BFF I can't go to her wedding, I'm a bridesmaid and my 2 kids are supposed to be flower girls in the ceremony. We live 200 miles apart, and due to...

Sophie, Sep 22, 2020 12 357
Mrs. Haug
Do you put your registry information with the invitation?
Mrs. Haug, on September 23, 2017 at 2:50 PM

Okay so I'm not sure how this is supposed to work. I am creating my invitations and I have an RSVP insert and a Details insert that sends guests to our wedding website. Do I put our registry...

Katrina, Sep 22, 2020 28 4,415
Taylor
Rehearsal dinner attire for the Bride
Taylor, on September 19, 2020 at 6:35 PM

Does the Bride wear whitr to her rehearsal dinner? I know the shower you do but nit certain on the rehearsal. Thanks.

Mrs. Coakley, Sep 22, 2020 13 2,132
The Bride
"Whoever Pays Has The Final Say"
The Bride, on July 28, 2019 at 10:43 AM

Some people believe that whoever pays for the wedding has the right to make the important decisions. Others feel that it's nice to have someone else pay for the wedding but the details are up to the...

Mrs. Coakley, Sep 22, 2020 48 661
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26 Days To Go!
Trisha, on September 21, 2020 at 8:28 AM

Finally The Day Is Getting So Close! I Am Feeling The Pressure And Trying Not To Stress Myself Out Too Much. Luckily We Didnt Have To Cancel, Postpone Or Change Our Amount Of Guests. (Im Sorry To...

Lynnie, Sep 21, 2020 4 98
Mrs. G
Guest taking home centerpieces?
Mrs. G, on September 20, 2018 at 12:36 PM

In my culture the guests will take home centerpieces after an event. However I refuse to do that! I worked too hard and spent so much money for them to just be taken lol. Are you letting guests take...

Maritza, Sep 21, 2020 34 7,208
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