Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

When are you guys ordering your wedding favors? With almost one month left till my wedding date, I can't order yet because I don't have all my RSVPs back (only 25%)!

Hi! So recently we got our engagement photos done with a different photographer than who is doing our wedding. While we think the photos of our original photographer are beautiful, we felt super...

Hey Everyone! I hired my day-of-wedding coordinator back in April and my wedding is in December 2021(My venue recommenced her to use for our wedding). We exchanged some emails and the last I heard...

Need some advice. Our wedding photographer was punctual on the day of the wedding and seemed nice enough. At the wedding, she promised me sneak peaks of our photos that Monday- and stated full albums...

This will probably be a long post. Today has barely started and it is already not my day. Our wedding is Oct. 3, so 4 days away. My fiance and I's favorite cousin on his side cancelled coming to the...

My close friend is an incredible professional wedding coordinator, and she generously offered (we never even asked!) to help us coordinate our wedding for free! She is extremely busy as a professional...

My sister askes me to be her MOH and I want to throw her a bridal shower but she is planning a very small destination wedding. It will be immediate family, our one aunt because she lives at the...

We are considering doing online RSVP through our wedding website to cut down on costs for stationery (additional envelopes and stamps, etc). I just wanted to hear everyone’s thoughts with online...

First of all, my FH and I consider ourselves engaged although there is no ring. It is out of stock and we are also waiting for my braces to come off. I have a few things that I would like some...

We are getting married in June 2021 with a destination wedding (in the US but most likely requiring a two hour plane ride for most guests). It will be a smaller wedding (30ish people). We do NOT want...

Hi everyone! My husband and I had a destination wedding planned for May 2nd of this year. Due to COVID-19, we canceled the destination wedding we had planned for 2 years and choose to have a small...

Hello! Does anyone have any experience with having two co-maid of honors and if so, how did you honor them/assign helpful tasks evenly for the wedding day? I would like them both to stand out in some...

Background: I have 2 cousins, a brother and sister (lets call them Alice, 4 and Tom, 8) and my fiancée has nieces, two sisters, (lets call them Sarah, 4 and Jane, 2 The ages I have noted are how...

Hi I’m in another dilemma which has caused me to avoid my friend like the plague. My soon to be husband doesn’t like my good friend. They haven’t spoke in years and he can’t forget her hurting him....

So I need advice. My cousin is one of my bridesmaids, for how much longer i don’t know. She’s been difficult since I bought my dress in august. It started with not wanting to spend said amount on a...

Hello Everyone! I heard of a box that helps you change your last name called newly Named and I wanted to know if anyone has any good or bad comments or reviews? With COVID, trying to get in anywhere...

How can one kindly make it clear that there should be no political discussions whatsoever at the reception? Should it be in the website or the invitations? How can one word that?

Is Reserved Ceremony Row Seating Necessary? I Cant Figure Out How To Create My DIY Reserved Signs But Am Just Thinking Of Not Doing Them At All.

I'm starting this post by saying that I absolutely am not looking for a fight or to cause drama. Just sharing something I've noticed. In the amount of time I've spent scrolling through these forums,...

Hi all! I just hopped on the engaged bandwagon August 1st and am looking for some advice! We decided on a destination wedding to Mexico on August 7th 2021. My parents insisted on something stateside...