I’m getting my girls customized cups as part of their gifts when I ask them to be in the bridal party. The girl I’m asking to be my maid of honor will be married by the time our wedding day comes. Should I address her as maid or matron of honor?? I plan to propose ASAP, she’s getting married in April 2021, and I’m getting married October 2021. TIA!
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I know she will be a matron by time my wedding comes, but if I would propose to her today she would be considered a maid of honor. I just don’t know which title to use for her personalized cup at this point in time.
There really is no etiquette as far as a I know I was in the same boat asking my sister as my maid of honor then she got married but didn’t ever want to be called matron cuz she said it made her feel old lol. It is up to you if you want matron or maid it’s just a title and it’s whatever title you want
I'd say the day where her title actually matters is your wedding day, and on that day she'd be a Matron of Honor, so I'd go with that. And Taylor makes a good point, she'll probably be excited that you're acknowledging her upcoming marriage!
I don’t think the title is really a big deal unless it matters to you. My sister is married and all of her stuff said maid of honor, and I am going to be the MOH for my cousins wedding, and she is using maid in the title. Yes, I am aware of what is proper, but it also comes down to your preference. Do whatever you like.