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Sarah
Just Said Yes October 2021

Tipping during micro wedding - help?

Sarah, on October 6, 2020 at 2:45 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9
We are getting married next weekend and having a very small wedding with immediate family only due to covid. We have postponed our large destination wedding to hopefully sometime next year. Lol. We are using a few vendors for our small wedding and i was wondering what the tipping etiquette is during this time. I am only doing a bridal bouquet from the florist. I am getting my hair and makeup done and we have a photographer for 2 hours. All of these vendors are the owners of their small business. My friends who all got married pre-covid said they tipped all their vendors but they all had large weddings. We will have 15 people total. Just looking for a little advice or suggestions on what other have done in a similar situation. I just want to make sure I’m following proper etiquette. Thanks for your suggestions!!

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Latest activity by Mrs.a, on October 6, 2020 at 8:44 PM
  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
    Jai ·
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    I think tipping is good especially since because of COVID so many people have lost their clientele and businesses. Our photographer we gave her a $100 tip, my hairdresser a $40 tip, and our caterer a $40 tip. We have a small elopement of 7 people
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    The etiquette is still the same regardless of the size of the wedding. You should still tip.

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  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Sarah ·
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    Thank you for your reply. It’s been so confusing on what to do and what is proper etiquette right now
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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    That is true!
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  • Katie
    Expert January 2021
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    Yes, you should still tip them.

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  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Sarah ·
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    I guess I really don’t know what to do. My hair and makeup people I will give them 20% because that’s kind of standard.


    I’m unsure on if you tip the florist. I only have a bouquet. The florist is in the same complex just a few units down from my hair and makeup. The florist said she would deliver it to the hair and makeup studio (same complex) for a $25 delivery fee. That seems ridiculous to me but ok whatever. Since she isn’t setting up flowers at the venue would you tip her? If so, what do you feel is an appropriate tip? Bouquet is $450 and she is the owner for reference.
    Photographer I would say yes. We have her for 2 hours. I read online If it’s the owner you don’t tip. She is the owner but I would still assume do something small? Any % suggestions here?
    Being a covid bride sucks. Lol
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  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes October 2021
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    I actually reviewed all my vendor contracts and some have gratuity already built in. I guess reread your contracts if you are unsure. You might have already paid gratuity.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    I'm pretty sure the same tipping rules apply even ic it's a small wedding.
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  • M
    Master October 2021
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    Honestly we tipped our vendors generous because this year has been so rough on them and they’re doing much smaller jobs and events than before. I’m just grateful that they were each willing and able to do so for our mini ceremony.
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