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Hey everyone! My future mother in law started going over who in her family can sit with who so I started making my seating chart (so I dont have to ask again later). I then realized that we have way...

As of Saturday, my husband sat me down and made the decision to postpone our September wedding reception again. I knew it was coming, I could see it all over his face and he could see on mine. I...

So my FH and I are very behind with the Save the Dates. We are getting married June 5th of this year, and we have not sent Save the Dates out yet or even ordered them. Should we just send our...

What have been your favorites as a guest in the past? What did you like best at your tastings that you decided on? Also any you didn't like or that your important people don't care for that affect...

I’m recently engaged and in the very early stages of starting to plan. My fiancé wants to get married this next year bc he doesn’t want to wait but I would like to wait till 2022 just to make sure we...

My friend and his wife where both in the wedding and due to covid and a job switch he can no longer attend. His wife who I thought I was close friends with refused to anwser my calls when I went to...

Hi everyone!! I am going dress shopping for the first time with my mom and future MIL this weekend. I am so excited but I’m not sure what I need to bring with me. Any advice? One location told me I’ll...

I sent invitations to our March wedding 10 weeks out... Wedding is in 26 days. Invites went out today. Balance.

So I first hired a violinist and cellist duet to play during our ceremony and cocktail hour and I was sooo excited about this. And now today, the lead musician called me to discuss the songs and...

Hi everyone! I’m having difficulties with choosing the ring bearer. Do the ring bearer usually walk by them self or with a small little girl. Another question I wanted to also know what age you have...

Are you supposed to tip the alterations person? My alterations cost $670. I lost 70 pounds since purchasing my dress, so he did a LOT of work. He works at the bridal boutique where I purchased...

My wedding is 6 months out. We’ve pretty much decided on everything except our wedding bands and the groom’s/groomsman’s suits. I’m basically just counting down the days until it’s not weird to go...

Hello, I’m getting married at the Morikami Museum on February. It will be an evening event starting at 6pm. I want semi-formal and my fiancé wants something more casual but I feel it doesn’t go with...

My aunt texted me this week asking if she could bring a guest to my wedding, we haven't given a final headcount and we are way below where we thought we would be so I said yes. When I did my invites I...

My fiance's step-sister and I have known each other since we were five years old and have pretty much been best friends ever since. She is my maid of honor and she couldn't be more excited. I was...

Do people still keep the top tier to eat on 1st anniversary? I know this used to be the thing to do but thinking it may not be anymore. What are your thoughts?

When we went to get our marriage license, they said to come back 2 weeks after our wedding to get our marriage certificate. But then after our wedding, our officiant said that it’s taking couples more...

I am in need of some serious advice. So my husband and I got married May 8th, 2020 which is our original date that we had planned. With essentially did a courthouse wedding with just his parents and...