You’ll be fine and that’s the way this cookie crumbled! I feel the same way. I had to postpone twice and didn’t let anyone know.... ooopppsseeee. I figured everyone would figure it out when they didn’t get an invitation. 😬
I’m a procrastinator as well! Lol I sent save the dates in Aug but I sent an email yesterday to people to confirm if they were coming lol I didn’t even send invites out. Most of my guest knew me wedding is on Nov 7th so it wasn’t really a surprise. Hopefully you are doing electronic RSVP’s that always for quicker response back.