My friend and his wife where both in the wedding and due to covid and a job switch he can no longer attend. His wife who I thought I was close friends with refused to anwser my calls when I went to check on her. I had already let her picking a short skin-tight dress slide and she had rubbed some of my friends the wrong way. I pretty much had to get the anwser from my friend that she wasn't comforable going.
I have done everything I could for this girl and I know saying anything will just hurt my friend. Her excuse is that she only knew ten people at the wedding...that she was sat with...out of 30 people, the rest being family. I had just ordered her gift, an accesory for her dress, and booked a suite so she could stay with us.