Rebecca
Rebecca

Theatre actress, baseball phanatic, South Jersey girl living in North Jersey, real-life Hermione, stage combatant

August 24, 2019
Having children
Officially Mrs. B, Yesterday at 11:11 AM

Hey all! Question to the parents or soon to be parents. How long after your wedding day did you start the “having children” discussion? Also, how long before you started having children with your...

Rebecca, 2 hours ago 38
Planning a Catholic Wedding (hopefully)
Emily, Today at 12:42 AM

My husband and I got married in a courthouse a year ago. Due to financial reasons, I didn't get the wedding of my dreams. I've always wanted a large wedding since I missed out on having a quinceñera....

Mandee, An hour ago 4
Anyone use the Budget-bride.com $100 package for flowers?
Michelle, on October 17, 2019 at 12:31 PM

We're doing a backyard wedding. Believe it or not, my FH is like "we've got to have lots of flowers." I'm more of the mindset that flowers are a splurge. A must for the bridal party only, and...

Renee, 3 hours ago 7
Is this the end?
Abby, on October 17, 2019 at 8:24 AM

Hi, I'm new to this and recently engaged to a police officer. He is a new police officer so the adjustment is hard. He works 7pm-5am and I work 6am-2pm. He sleeps all day on his days off so I don't...

Maddie, Yesterday at 11:17 PM 38
One Piece of Advice for New Brides
Emly, on October 17, 2019 at 9:32 AM

If you had to give a new bride one piece of advice as she starts her planning what would it be? I'm coming up to a year of engagement and planning and I have learned A LOT of lessons the hard way and...

Caitlin, Yesterday at 10:16 PM 17 1
Did you end up tipping your vendors that night?
Angelena, on October 17, 2019 at 10:21 AM

So we fully intended to do so but if you leave a job up to a man well it probably won't get done lol. My now husband was designated to get the tip money for our DJ and photobooth guy because I alone...

Rebecca, Yesterday at 2:42 AM 10
Is a service charge a tip?
Kristen, on October 17, 2019 at 9:46 AM

Hi!I was wondering if the service charge is equivalent to tipping the standard 15-20%. My venue offers both catering and a full bar and the service charge has been added onto the total including the...

Rebecca, Yesterday at 2:37 AM 6
Tips for Choosing dj
Natalie, on October 17, 2019 at 12:07 PM

Do you have any tips for choosing your DJ? It's one of the last vendors we are hung up on. We visited one DJ and got a quote, they also quoted us for some gobo lighting and a photobooth. We liked them...

Brandi, Yesterday at 5:59 AM 6
What is everyone's thoughts on full-service, all-inclusive catering?
Katy, on October 17, 2019 at 3:09 PM

I've run across a few all-inclusive catering options, and I am wondering if they are worth the price. I understand that they offer full-service catering (dinner and dessert), bar service, linens,...

Holly, Yesterday at 1:40 PM 29
Long Time No Post
Mrs. Johnson in 2020, on October 16, 2019 at 4:35 AM

Hello WW,It's been a while since I posted a discussion due to life and I haven't been doing much planning either. To catch-up with y'all (and to explain) we moved into our new place and we had a baby...

Rebecca, Oct 17, 2019 20 1
Money saving tips!
Kassidy, on October 16, 2019 at 2:36 PM

I’m just looking for any advice y’all have on how you saved some money for your weddings! I’ve seen some pretty money savvy brides on here and was just wondering if anyone else had done something...

Taylor, Oct 17, 2019 13 1
Photographer not answering
Sam, on October 16, 2019 at 8:23 PM

We booked our photographer back in June for our June 2020 wedding. Last month my fiancé and I decided to cancel our big wedding due to finances and stress, and we decided to plan a small elopement on...

Sinéad, Yesterday at 8:36 AM 2
Lets talk flowers, fake and real. How much do you spend?
Sydney, on October 16, 2019 at 9:05 PM

Hello everyone, I have been looking at my flower options and I want to hear your opinions fake or real? If you go fake, where did you get them and what material were they? I have seen some pretty wood...

Stephanie, Oct 17, 2019 18
Family Re-connecting advice
Laura, on October 15, 2019 at 7:53 AM

Ok long story short; while my FH dad was losing his battle to lung cancer, his mom pushed the dads side of the family away and made her boys (FH and his brothers) think that side of the family was all...

Laura, Oct 16, 2019 5
Inviting someone you don’t like?
Jackie, on October 15, 2019 at 1:56 PM

Hello all. I’ve recently been thinking about my guest list...who to invite and who not to invite. My fiancé has a friend that I’m not particularly fond of...probably not all! I’m stuck in the in...

Olivia, Yesterday at 6:26 AM 22
Any other brides in late 30s who are planning to have kids? Feeling like the odd one out among my friends!
Cakewalk, on October 15, 2019 at 12:56 PM

Hey everyone! I'm 37, just got engaged, the wedding date is planned for February 2020 (relatively short turnaround as we want to try to get pregnant shortly after). Anyway, I'm just feeling like the...

Rebecca, Oct 16, 2019 13 1
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