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This will be my second time getting married. I would like to keep it simple, simply due to cost, however there are things I did not get to do at my first wedding, I would like to do with this wedding....

We’re doing a honeymoon fund, instead of gifts or a registry. How much is a reasonable amount to expect for people to contribute? I certainly won’t make it mandatory, so it’s just if people would like...

My husband is a firefighter/medic & the captain of his crew. The whole time we’ve been together (dating, living together, married) he’s always done 48 hrs on, 96 hrs off. Those 2 days I got to do...

What did you feel was money or time well spent? What did you regret including? Of the guests who came to you with compliments, what were their favorite elements that you included?

My fiance and I grew up in catholic families. However, neither of us are religious and don't need a religious ceremony. His father is very much religious and is requesting that we have a priest. I was...

Married ladies and those soon to be wed, are you going to try to conceive right away, give it some time and or not at all?

And if you're married, DID it change? My fiance and I live together. We have joint health insurance and hold joint investments. We are marked down as each other's emergency contacts at work and with...

LONG POST AHEAD.....I have been dealing with parental issues, primarily with my mother, for years. Before I moved out and after. I moved out at the age of 18 and moved 2.5 hours away. Even from a...

I messed up and I don’t know how to fix it. I did something really stupid. I had joined a FB group for toxic MILs. I made a post that was not anonymous when I was in a bad headspace regarding all of...

Hey ladies! My fiancé and I are thinking about doing our honeymoon in florida- can anyone else tell me about their honeymoon experience in florida? what did you do there? what did you enjoy the most...

I’ve seen several posts on here regarding what to provide for bridal party for food while getting ready. I know I don’t want to do bagels or anything too expensive! Thoughts? And brides what did you...

This question is for all you older (but ageless) brides out there who are doing this wedding fun for a second (or third) time! Are you including the "something old, something new...." tradition? My gf...

Really not sure at all if we should do a “send off” or just dance/hang out as normal until the end. Did anyone not do a send off and regret not having that last big moment? Or vice cersa, did anyone...

Do you call your in laws mom and dad? I just got married last Friday and my father in law keeps asking me "when are you going to call us mom and dad?" It's not that I don't want to, but it feels...

How long did it take for him to propose to you?

Per Filipino 'tradition,' my mother made my middle name her maiden name, then gave me my father's last name. After doing all this marriage license crap, I realized I'm gonna have to 'pick a name' and...

We had to postpone our wedding due to covid, and now have 6 extra months to 'plan' - but since we would only have had 18 days left at this point, everything feels like it's organised and planned. But,...

So I know a lot of people give traditional wedding gift to there FHs but I went totally off from that! I got him a “poster” featuring his favorite beer made as his gift! I’m sure most will frown upon...

They all seem the same from what they post online and from initial conversations. Don't have any strong personal recommendations from friends to go off of. Curious how others picked their DJ?

My mom might not come because she has concert tickets for the same day. Has anyone else received a ‘no’ for a reason so bad it’s funny? Trying to see if I’m in the same boat as anyone else.