Rebecca
Rebecca

Theatre actress, baseball phanatic, South Jersey girl living in North Jersey, real-life Hermione, stage combatant

Happily married 🎉

August 24, 2019

785days 23hrs
Kristina
Are you having a simple wedding or something far more extravagant? please explain.
Kristina, on September 19, 2021 at 9:16 PM

This will be my second time getting married. I would like to keep it simple, simply due to cost, however there are things I did not get to do at my first wedding, I would like to do with this wedding....

Dylan&Hana, Oct 2, 2021 17 1
Alyssa
Honeymoon Fund
Alyssa, on September 19, 2021 at 11:12 PM

We’re doing a honeymoon fund, instead of gifts or a registry. How much is a reasonable amount to expect for people to contribute? I certainly won’t make it mandatory, so it’s just if people would like...

Teeny, Sep 21, 2021 20 1
Michelle
Job Changes
Michelle, on September 16, 2021 at 8:51 AM

My husband is a firefighter/medic & the captain of his crew. The whole time we’ve been together (dating, living together, married) he’s always done 48 hrs on, 96 hrs off. Those 2 days I got to do...

MOB So Cal, Sep 17, 2021 24
Michelle
Lessons learned after the wedding
Michelle, on September 15, 2021 at 10:11 PM

What did you feel was money or time well spent? What did you regret including? Of the guests who came to you with compliments, what were their favorite elements that you included?

Theadra, Sep 18, 2021 4
Stephanie
Non-religious couple trying to please Catholic family. Help!
Stephanie, on September 13, 2021 at 9:21 PM

My fiance and I grew up in catholic families. However, neither of us are religious and don't need a religious ceremony. His father is very much religious and is requesting that we have a priest. I was...

A.B., Sep 24, 2021 21
Rebelle Fleur
How soon are you Ttc?
Rebelle Fleur, on September 13, 2021 at 6:49 PM

Married ladies and those soon to be wed, are you going to try to conceive right away, give it some time and or not at all?

Milada, Sep 21, 2021 26
Rosie
Do you think your relationship will change much post-marriage?
Rosie, on September 13, 2021 at 9:48 PM

And if you're married, DID it change? My fiance and I live together. We have joint health insurance and hold joint investments. We are marked down as each other's emergency contacts at work and with...

Milada, Sep 21, 2021 20
K
Parental issues... post Wedding.
Kr, on September 10, 2021 at 2:47 PM

LONG POST AHEAD.....I have been dealing with parental issues, primarily with my mother, for years. Before I moved out and after. I moved out at the age of 18 and moved 2.5 hours away. Even from a...

Yasmine, Sep 11, 2021 12
I
i messed up and i don’t know where to go from here
Invisible, on September 6, 2021 at 9:34 AM

I messed up and I don’t know how to fix it. I did something really stupid. I had joined a FB group for toxic MILs. I made a post that was not anonymous when I was in a bad headspace regarding all of...

Rebecca, Sep 7, 2021 9
Sarah
Honeymooning in florida?
Sarah, on September 7, 2021 at 1:16 AM

Hey ladies! My fiancé and I are thinking about doing our honeymoon in florida- can anyone else tell me about their honeymoon experience in florida? what did you do there? what did you enjoy the most...

Alyssa, Sep 7, 2021 4
S
Food for day of wedding?
Sierra, on September 5, 2021 at 10:01 AM

I’ve seen several posts on here regarding what to provide for bridal party for food while getting ready. I know I don’t want to do bagels or anything too expensive! Thoughts? And brides what did you...

Megan, Sep 9, 2021 18 1
Pat
Something old, something new .......
Pat, on September 4, 2021 at 10:53 AM

This question is for all you older (but ageless) brides out there who are doing this wedding fun for a second (or third) time! Are you including the "something old, something new...." tradition? My gf...

Natalie, Sep 9, 2021 13
Chantelle
Send Off?
Chantelle, on September 4, 2021 at 10:07 AM

Really not sure at all if we should do a “send off” or just dance/hang out as normal until the end. Did anyone not do a send off and regret not having that last big moment? Or vice cersa, did anyone...

Ashley, Sep 9, 2021 15
Jen
For those who have been married a while... Do you call your in laws mom and dad?
Jen, on September 2, 2021 at 11:33 AM

Do you call your in laws mom and dad? I just got married last Friday and my father in law keeps asking me "when are you going to call us mom and dad?" It's not that I don't want to, but it feels...

Makeba, Sep 3, 2021 22
Allyssia
Proposal
Allyssia, on September 1, 2021 at 3:11 PM

How long did it take for him to propose to you?

Joy, 3 hours ago 205 1
Amanda
Are you losing your middle name? Keeping your maiden? Not changing your name at all?
Amanda, on September 1, 2021 at 12:11 AM

Per Filipino 'tradition,' my mother made my middle name her maiden name, then gave me my father's last name. After doing all this marriage license crap, I realized I'm gonna have to 'pick a name' and...

Michelle, Sep 3, 2021 25
Rosie
If you'd been given 6 months extra to plan, how would you have used it and what do you wish you did?
Rosie, on August 30, 2021 at 7:43 PM

We had to postpone our wedding due to covid, and now have 6 extra months to 'plan' - but since we would only have had 18 days left at this point, everything feels like it's organised and planned. But,...

Rosie, Sep 1, 2021 20 1
Stephanie
Fh’s wedding gift
Stephanie, on August 27, 2021 at 8:16 PM

So I know a lot of people give traditional wedding gift to there FHs but I went totally off from that! I got him a “poster” featuring his favorite beer made as his gift! I’m sure most will frown upon...

Shadia, Sep 12, 2021 12
J
Tips on picking a Dj?
Jessica, on August 27, 2021 at 2:25 PM

They all seem the same from what they post online and from initial conversations. Don't have any strong personal recommendations from friends to go off of. Curious how others picked their DJ?

Katie, Aug 29, 2021 10
L
Worst reasons someone declined your wedding invitation?
Layla, on August 27, 2021 at 10:50 PM

My mom might not come because she has concert tickets for the same day. Has anyone else received a ‘no’ for a reason so bad it’s funny? Trying to see if I’m in the same boat as anyone else.

Pirate & 60s Bride, Sep 1, 2021 17
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