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Happily married 🎉

August 24, 2019

430days 21hrs


How to Deal with Drama - this is my Tedx Talk
Rebecca in Family and Relationships, on October 1, 2020 at 12:27 AM

Full disclosure, I'm not a therapist. (I'm related to a few, which probably explains a whole lot about me.) Mostly my bona fides come from surviving a narcissistic mother, my parents' divorce, and...

Bo Miller, Oct 2, 2020 10 228 2
Give us a deep cut photo!
Rebecca in Community Conversations, on September 12, 2020 at 5:16 AM

We all post pictures of the dress, or the kiss, or the portraits... Post a photo from your engagement shoot or your wedding that's a "deep cut" - something maybe not even in your album, but that you...

Rebecca, Sep 14, 2020 15 371
One year married!
Rebecca in Married Life, on August 25, 2020 at 3:54 AM

Today (Monday), was our one year anniversary. It's been a year. We took our honeymoon in January, to Disney and Universal... but things have been tough, since. Not for our relationship... but...

Lynnie, Aug 31, 2020 16 231
Show me your wedding finery!
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on June 30, 2020 at 1:21 AM

I love picture posts, so let's have a fun one. Show me your wedding finery - dress, jumpsuit, special outfit, whatever it is you wore/are wearing for the big day! Here's my "portrait" from the park...

Rebecca, Jul 2, 2020 30 326 1
Father/daughter photos
Rebecca in Community Conversations, on June 21, 2020 at 4:37 AM

Ok, so I'm a total Daddy's girl. (And my father hates that term, but... I'm an only child, and the apple didn't fall far from the tree.) Do you all have a favorite photo from your wedding day with...

Merline, Jun 22, 2020 13 179 1
From family of 2 to family of ... ?
Rebecca in Married Life, on May 12, 2020 at 1:17 AM

Hi all! I'm at the stage of life where pregnancy announcements tend to happen *all the time*. We were some of the last of our group to get married, so we've already got a bunch of "niblings" and 2...

Caitlyn, Jun 10, 2020 20 331
Funny Friday!
Rebecca in Community Conversations, on June 5, 2020 at 2:31 AM

All right, wedding planners! It has been the *toughest* of weeks, no months, no... YEARS. 2020 is throwing it at us, so I say the answer is: LAUGH. After all, laughter is the best medicine. Hit this...

Rebecca, Jun 6, 2020 5 129
Is your spouse like their parent? Are you? (funny convos with my Mil)
Rebecca in Married Life, on January 31, 2020 at 3:27 AM

The longer I've been with DH, the more my MIL talks to me about FIL. And the more I realize... watching FIL is like watching the future. After dinner tonight, we all sit down to chat in the living...

Jennifer, Feb 4, 2020 13 164
And we're off!
Rebecca in Honeymoon, on January 21, 2020 at 3:27 AM

Just shy of 5 months married, and in about an hour and a half we head to the airport! We're doing six days at Disney/Universal. I haven't been to Disney since I was 7, DH has *never* been to the FL...

Tori, Jan 22, 2020 4 90
Small vent about bp and parties
Rebecca in Parties and Events, on July 24, 2019 at 3:06 AM

So, first of all, my BP is pretty cool, and my friends are really supportive and amazing. THAT said, my bridesman has ... gone a bit overboard with the bachelorette party planning. My MOH was really...

Tosha Fay, Jan 12, 2020 1 232
Honeymoon booked!
Rebecca in Honeymoon, on October 31, 2019 at 2:56 AM

...We've been married 2 months already, whoops!We're going to Disney and Universal! Timing is a bit shorter than we'd have liked, but since we're booking so close to the actual dates, all the prices...

Anna, Nov 1, 2019 5 59
Got the Marriage Certificate back! (and some more pro pics)
Rebecca in Married Life, on September 17, 2019 at 2:58 AM

It came in the mail today.Can't decide if it makes it feel more real, or what...I want to frame it, but DH says we might need it for various documentation purposes. What did you all do with yours?Oh,...

Samantha, Sep 24, 2019 13 288
And here are some of my bam pro shots!!
Rebecca in Married Life, on August 31, 2019 at 3:07 AM

My photographer is super fast, he's amazing. We don't have everything, yet, but I'm already in love with what we've got.My dad picked me up when we got to the "altar". Back of my dress. I did it in...

Clíodhna, Sep 5, 2019 11 374
Bam! Non-pro photos
Rebecca in Community Conversations, on August 26, 2019 at 3:57 AM

I'M BACK AND MARRIED!!!It's been all of 34 (?) hours? Best. Day. EVER. Seriously, could not have imagined a better day. I was super calm up until my dad and I started to walk down the aisle... and...

NextChapterReady, Aug 27, 2019 24 560
4 days to go and today was a roller coaster!
Rebecca in Planning, on August 21, 2019 at 2:49 AM

Oh, wow, did today go all over the place! Woke up to an email from the venue asking if we still wanted to do a ceremony rehearsal. And giving times. Problem? WE SCHEDULED THAT 2 WEEKS AGO! Wrote a...

Rachel, Aug 23, 2019 6 202
Bab! Pics@
Rebecca in Parties and Events, on August 16, 2019 at 3:23 AM

We went to Medieval Times! We're all major nerds and several of us are stage combatants, so this is one of our favorite things. Our knight won his joust, but lost another duel. And then it turned out...

Jessica, Aug 17, 2019 11 192
Centerpieces done!
Rebecca in Style and Décor, on August 12, 2019 at 2:49 AM

Got our centerpieces done today! (We made more than we need, as we ordered flowers based on our guest list, not final RSVP numbers.) We cut foam balls in half, cut holes in the top, painted them to...

Kelly, Aug 13, 2019 16 273
Productive Day, 17 days out!
Rebecca in Planning, on August 8, 2019 at 2:43 AM

Oooof, have I had a productive but tiring day! 1. Went with FH to get marriage license. (!!!!) 2. Picked up my grandmother's pearls from the jeweler's - they needed to be restrung.3. Went wandering in...

Cher Horowitz, Aug 8, 2019 7 114
Handfasting cords help
Rebecca in Wedding Ceremony, on August 5, 2019 at 3:07 AM

I need to find red, silver, and purple handfasting cords, ASAP. I didn't like the ribbon at Michael's, and I'm not super pleased with the selection on Etsy. Anyone have any advice?

Rebecca, Aug 8, 2019 8 129
Hurt, minor vent
Rebecca in Family and Relationships, on August 2, 2019 at 3:08 AM

As some of you know, my mother has RSVP'd no. Then some of my cousins demanded to talk to me. We had a talk.Well, Aug 1 was the deadline for RSVPs. Precisely one set of cousins had responded at all,...

Heather, Aug 3, 2019 10 435