Rebelle Fleur
Rockstar July 2021

How soon are you Ttc?

Rebelle Fleur, on September 13, 2021 at 6:49 PM Posted in Married Life 0 26
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Married ladies and those soon to be wed, are you going to try to conceive right away, give it some time and or not at all?

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Latest activity by Milada, on September 21, 2021 at 4:31 PM
  • mrswinteriscoming
    Rockstar December 2021
    mrswinteriscoming ·
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    We won't be TTC for at least 2-3 years after we get married. I'm only 24 and while we both want kids (and me having become quite clucky in recent times) we aren't financially where we want to be prior to having children and we otherwise just 'aren't there yet'.

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  • Ashlee
    Expert September 2022
    Ashlee ·
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    We've got a year till the wedding but we'll be TTC right away. I'll be 35 then and I feel that biological clock ticking away

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  • Hannah
    Dedicated October 2021
    Hannah ·
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    We’ll be waiting about 6 months or so as of right now! Plans are bound to change though and we’ll be at peace with whatever happens Smiley smile
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  • Samantha
    Expert December 2021
    Samantha ·
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    We decided to wait until I graduate nursing school May of 2023. We'll probably start trying midway through that semester since I'll turn 32 a few months after graduation.
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  • Hannah
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    We got married 2 years ago and just started trying. We were originally going to wait until I graduated my doctoral program, but we're both 31 and I'm close to being done and we decided we didn't want to wait.
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  • Cece
    Super November 2022
    Cece ·
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    Not at all for us. We have decided that we are just meant to be doggy parents ❤️🐾
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  • Kk
    Devoted October 2021
    Kk ·
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    Also Team Furbabies ❤️
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  • Cece
    Super November 2022
    Cece ·
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    Go team fur baby! Lol
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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    We actually had our soon before we got married & plan on getting pregnant next month after our big wedding (most likely during the honeymoon)
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  • Jessyca
    Dedicated September 2021
    Jessyca ·
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    Off of BC three weeks ago and the wedding is Saturday!

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  • C
    Just Said Yes October 2023
    Cristina ·
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    We had both our kids already a boy & a girl. Now marriage (backwards I know lol)
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    We waited until our delayed honeymoon (about 5 months), and then started. I lost a pregnancy last year, which was devastating, but now I'm *days* away from our having our rainbow baby.

    Then again, I'm in my late 30s, so it's all about where YOU are, not what other people are doing.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted May 2022
    Samantha ·
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    My first marriage, I got pregnant the first month after the wedding. This marriage we will not be having any more children Smiley smile Really depends on your financial situation, your places in your lives, and what you both want!

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  • Kris
    Expert July 2021
    Kris ·
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    We haven't planned a set TTC timeline, HOWEVER we have an appointment day after tomorrow with my OB to do genetic testing for both of us to figure out how soon we should start!

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  • Victoria
    Beginner November 2022
    Victoria ·
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    We are planning to wait a year or two before we start trying! I want us to be a little more financially secure before we bring a lil nug earth side since I’ll likely be staying home with them (daycare costs are REEFREAKINGDICULOUS), hopefully in a house rather than an apartment and have some time to recover $$ post wedding! COVID permitting we will be going to a family reunion on FH’s side in Ireland and Scotland so maybe we’ll start while we’re there lol
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  • EGD
    Devoted September 2022
    EGD ·
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    I'll be 27 when we get married, FH will be 25. I think we'll start trying within 2 years as I'd like to be 30 by the time I have my first kid, and I feel like by then we'll be in a good financial spot to start our family.

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  • R
    Savvy June 2022
    Rebecca ·
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    I think we'll be waiting at least a year or two after the wedding. We are okay financially, but after the wedding it would be a better time.

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  • Expert June 2021
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    Hubby and I just got married June 4 and started trying right away. We been together 8 years and are 28 (29 at the end of the year) and 31. We didn’t want to wait anymore. Got a positive pregnancy test last month, 7 weeks today. I say start whenever it feels right to you and your partner. We discussed our plans to start a family last summer and both agreed we were ready right after the I do’s.
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Been married for over two years now and still not wanting to try LOL

    i've been having this convo a lot with friends lately since i am at an age where all our other friends and people we know are starting to. so the way i see it for me personally is that i love my life and i'm genuinely happy - i live a certain lifestyle that i really enjoy, which includes immense amount of freedom. if i wanna go to happy hour in a couple hours randomly, i can do that. if i want to travel next week across the country, i can do that. if i want to leave randomly right now just to hangout with friends, i can do that. i'm not saying i CAN'T do that if i had a kid but it would dam sure be harder/probably not ideal at all anyway. so it isn't the idea of bringing a kid into the world and raising them that scares me - it's the fact that i have to give up the life i have now or modify it extremely, that makes me genuinely sad to think about.

    i wasn't one for wanting kids to begin with but when i met my husband and the years went by with him, i became more and more open to it. so we said in a few years we will reassess where our mindsets are about kids! because by then maybe i will be 100% wanting one! but as for now, i really love my life and lifestyle and i just can't give that up, at least not yet.

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  • Katherine
    Expert October 2021
    Katherine ·
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    Me and my fiance have discussed possibly trying maybe 2-3 months after the wedding. We want to enjoy our honeymoon first to the fullest.
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