45th anniversary gift ideas

Celebrating 45 years of marriage is a momentous occasion. It means that for four and half decades you've stood by each other's side through all of life's ups and downs and twists and turns. You've likely learned a lot about one another throughout those years, but that doesn't mean coming up with an anniversary gift idea is always easy. Fortunately for you, we're here to help. 

We've scoured the top online retailers to find great 45th wedding anniversary gift ideas to suit all tastes and styles. Whether you're searching for an anniversary present for your spouse or a gift to congratulate your parents, grandparents, or another special couple in your life celebrating 45 years together, we've got you covered. 

What is the traditional 45-year anniversary gift?

The 45th wedding anniversary is known as the sapphire anniversary, represented by the gorgeous blue sapphire gemstone. It serves as both the modern and traditional theme, too. As for the 45th wedding anniversary color, it also takes its inspiration from the classic sapphire—blue. But sapphires also come in other colors like red, white, and pink, so there's a rainbow of other possibilities.

While sapphire jewelry and accessories make great 45th wedding anniversary gifts, the sapphire and its deep blue hue provide plenty of inspiration for other types of gifts as well. Plus, there's no rule that says you have to follow any theme at all, so we've rounded up some great alternative gifts as well for those of you who want to go a bit rogue. Heck, after 45 years married to one another, you know best.

The Best 45th Anniversary Gifts

Whether you're looking for a traditional, modern, or alternative 45th wedding anniversary gift idea, the options are plentiful. We've selected an array of ideas, including those that are sweet, sentimental, humorous, practical, and everything in between. No matter their taste or style, there's sure to be something on this list that will make the perfect 45th anniversary gift for your loved one. 

Diamond and sapphire halo ring 45th anniversary gift

1. Classic ring

You put a ring on it all those years ago, so now may be a great time to add another to her hand. This stunning sapphire ring makes a great traditional gift, featuring a large oval sapphire in the middle surrounded by a swirl of diamonds.

Blue Nile oval sapphire and diamond halo twist ring, $3,500, Blue Nile

Natural sapphire and sterling silver cuff links

2. Elegant cuff links

They can wear a symbol of your love on their sleeves quite literally with these amazing cuff links. With stunning natural sapphire and a polished sterling silver base, they're nothing short of dapper. 

Scully & Scully sterling silver sapphire cuff links, $485, Scully & Scully

Bags of sapphire gravel traditional 45th anniversary gift

3. Sapphire gravel

Gravel as a gift? When it's this cool sapphire gravel from the Sapphire Mountain Range in Montana, you bet. It comes with a mining kit so you can sift through it to look for sparkly treasures that may make it an extra meaningful gift. 

Sapphire Gravel Montana sapphire gravel, $65 for 2 bags, Etsy

Raspberry flavor honey

4.  Raw honey

Honey for your honey is a sweet gift for any anniversary. This raw honey from Zach & Zoe comes in a variety of fun flavors that incorporate natural ingredients like ginger root, matcha, and raspberry.

Zach & Zoë Sweet Bee Farm honey, from $20, Zach & Zoë

Blue YETI cooler 45th anniversary gift idea

5. Rugged cooler

A sturdy cooler makes a great gift for those who like to be on the go. The fact that it comes in a deep sapphire blue color makes it a particularly fitting 45th anniversary gift. 

YETI Tundra 35 hard cooler in Navy, $250, YETI

Sapphire heart chain link bracelet

6. Romantic bracelet

This gorgeous bracelet featuring two deep blue sapphire hearts hanging from a gold link chain makes a lovely traditional gift to mark a 45th wedding anniversary. It's pretty as a standalone piece, or it can be layered along with other bracelets and bangles. 

Cathy Waterman blue sapphire heart yellow gold bracelet, $3,450, Ylang 23

Cute wedding anniversary card for spouse

7.  Quirky card

If you've been married for 45 years, chances are you have found that humor helps you get through a lot. This cute anniversary card adds just a hint of it, reading, "Someday you will find this card in a drawer... and we will still be in love." (Awwwh!) 

Always Fits Find This Card in a Drawer and We Will Still Be in Love card, $6, Always Fits

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8. Sugar supply

Sweets for your sweetie are hard to beat when it comes to a much-appreciated anniversary gift. This gift box features yummy confections that will quickly quell any candy cravings. 

Candy Club gift box subscription, from $30 per month, Candy Club

Pink sapphire heart pendant 45th anniversary gift

9. Sparkly necklace

While blue sapphires are beautiful, we think pink ones are pretty amazing too. This one is heart shaped and set in gold with a small diamond on the chain to add an extra bit of bling. 

Nordstrom solitaire pink sapphire heart pendant necklace, $4,800, Nordstrom

Sapphire wall art 45th anniversary gift

10.  Wonderful wall art

This gorgeous wall art will serve as a stunning reminder of your sapphire wedding anniversary for years to come. It features gold foil embellished capiz shells and has a beachy, modern vibe

Anthropologie Indigo Spray wall art in Sapphire, $298, Anthropologie

Beautiful layflat photo albums 45th anniversary gift idea

11. Luxe photo album

Commemorate your years together by memorializing some of your most special memories in a beautiful photo album. The cover and other details can be personalized to make it a truly unique and meaningful gift. 

Artifact Uprising signature layflat photo album, from $289, Artifact Uprising

View of hotel and palm trees in the Bahamas

12. Relaxing vacation

When it comes to sapphire anniversary gifts, you can't go wrong with a trip to the sapphire-blue waters of the Bahamas. Book a stay at the Atlantis resort for a vacation the two of you will never forget. 

Atlantis Paradise Island Bahamas resort stay, rates vary, Atlanta Paradise Island Bahamas

Rocket cocktail shaker gift for 45th anniversary

13. Cool cocktail shaker

Mixing drinks will be a blast with this stainless steel rocket cocktail shaker. Add a bottle of Bombay Sapphire gin for a fun, modern twist on the traditional 45th anniversary gift.

Viski rocket cocktail shaker, $42, Bespoke Post

Colorful bouquet in BloomsyBox delivery box

14. Flower subscription

A flow of fresh flowers will be theirs when you gift them a subscription from Bloomsybox. Each month, they'll get a gorgeous bouquet of premium blooms delivered right to their door. 

BloomsyBox Bloomsy Premium flower subscription, $55 per month, BloomsyBox

Two rocks glasses cut from Bombay Sapphire gin bottles

15. Sapphire glasses

Raise a glass to 45 years of marriage with these sapphire blue shot glasses. They're perfect for sipping Bombay Sapphire gin on the rocks. 

Reciclar Factory Bombay Sapphire blue gin rocks glasses, from $33 for a set of 2, Etsy

Bed made up with Boll & Branch white linens

16. Buttery soft bedding

There's nothing like crawling into an ultra-comfy bed at night with the one you love, and this duvet set sets the foundation fabulously. It comes with a duvet cover and two pillow shams, all made from 100% organic cotton. 

Boll & Branch signature hemmed duvet set, from $268, Boll & Branch

Colorful birth month ring dishes

17. Ring dish

This ring dish is as sweet as it is practical. Handcrafted from stained glass and adorned with beads, crystals, and copper wire, it's perfect for holding an engagement ring and other jewelry when it's not being worn. 

Ellen Bartfeld birth month mini dish, $44 each, Uncommon Goods

Sleek wrist watch 45th anniversary gift

18. Sharp watch

Mark the time you've spent together with this elegant timepiece. The wearer will think of you every time they glance down and see the stunning silver watch with its sapphire crystal face. 

Bulova Precisionist wrist watch, $796, Bulova

Alonzo Mourning NBA Hall of Famer doing cameo

19. Celebrity message

Send them a personalized video message from their favorite star to celebrate the occasion with a fun twist. Choose from actors, athletes, comedians, and others who will blow the recipient away when they extend their anniversary well wishes.

Cameo celebrity video message, rates vary, Cameo

Diamond and rose gold eternity ring 45th anniversary gift

20. Eternity ring

You've been together for what feels like an eternity, which makes this gorgeous eternity ring a great 45th wedding anniversary gift. It features 18 diamonds set in a circle of rose gold for maximum bling. 

Annoushka Marguerite 18-carat rose gold diamond eternity ring, $4,500, Annoushka

Caraway cream cookware set

21. Quality cookware

A great cookware set makes for memorable meals and a nice, practical 45-year anniversary gift, especially if your pots and pans have seen better days. This set comes with four versatile pans in an array of attractive colors for a bit of extra spice in the kitchen. 

Caraway cookware set, $495, Caraway

Cheeky Cocktails eight bottle cocktail kit

22. Cocktail kit

Cheers to your wedding date with some delicious cocktails. This eight-bottle kit features a selection of delicious syrups that can be combined to make up to 50 delicious concoctions. Just add your favorite alcohol, or use non-alcoholic additions to make mocktails. 

Cheeky Cocktails 8 bottle kit, $60, Cheeky Cocktails

Sapphire oval pendant necklace 45th anniversary gift

23. Pretty pendant

Jewelry always makes for a romantic gift, and you can't go wrong with this gorgeous pendant necklace. The blue oval sapphire is set in sterling silver making for a stunning piece that's sure to be treasured for generations to come.

Macy's blue sapphire and white sapphire 18-inch pendant necklace in Sterling Silver, $300, Macy's