Discussions from New York Planning

Hi, So like most everyone else, my venue is offering to re-schedule for 2021, have a 50 person wedding this year which will end up still costing about $6,800 without cocktail hour or dancing;...

So I’ve noticed a listing of Black vendors for the south, but I have not come across any for NY. Are any othe BIPOC brides to be experiencing the same challenges?

Hi! We had to postpone our wedding reception and are now planning to have an intimate ceremony and dinner. Location is NYC, but were struggling to find a spot! Number of ppl is around 25! Any...

I would like just thoughts or your experience with a micro-wedding. I was planning to elope but my mother in law would like to be there when we get married. So i decided to look at venues for a...

How many people has everyone had at their wedding since covid in New York?

Hi everyone! So i am one of the many brides who had to postpone her wedding a number of times due to covid. it was supposed to have been in late May in Cancun; however we are thinking of doing a...

I live on Long Island, Ny I have been engaged almost 2 years. I wanted to plan my wedding for Jan 2021 but 2020 was a rough year for me. (And for a lot of people) I am debating in Jan 2021 to either...

Hi all! Anyone still getting married next month with a reception afterwards? I am in NYC and our maximum is 50 people. We had a 300 people guest list and it's becoming really impossible. I don't want...

Hi All! Is anyone else getting married on 9-19-20? Bonus points if you are in New York! How much planning have you done?

We were just told that vendors now need to be included in your total number of guests to be guideline compliant with the 50 guest count New York has mandated. I can't find anything that backs up this...

Hello Ladies, My new wedding date is set for Feb 20, 2021 in WNY. Why’s everyone considering due to Our governors order about guest count and no dancing! I am hoping after the new year, numbers will...

Hi! We're going through with our wedding on September 25, 2020 in Westchester, just much smaller than what we planned for our original date. With the current covid restrictions in NY, there's no...

Hi everyone! I am recently engaged and we really want to get married when there is snow on the ground. Do you have any suggestions for Winter Wedding Venues in Upstate/Western New York? We have a few...

Hi all! Definitely feeling the anxiety and sadness of the times but somehow still trying to keep planning for our August 2021 wedding in NYC. I know hair and makeup can be extremely expensive,...

I’m so torn with the no dancing in NY and I really don’t want to have a reception if we aren’t aloud to dance 💔 but I’m also afraid we can’t get our money back if we cancel our wedding. We are due to...

NYC brides....I’m kind of curious how you all feel about the no dancing at your wedding’s rule even if you social distance and wear masks? I’m also curious to see how you feel about seeing the VMAs...

Hey everyone, So yesterday was an emotionally hard day for me. I finally let the sucky situation that many of us brides and couples have been experiencing this year sink in, and I had a full on...

Hello, due to the pandemic, my now husband and I were planned to get married at Falkirk Estate Country Club, in Central Valley NY. Since we couldn’t have the contracted amount of guests of 150, we had...

So were looking for an inexpensive venue we can rent for a weekend?! We would need to fit 12 girls in log cabin, home, etc so we can get ready. My ideal plan is to get somewhere Friday night do the...

Industrial rustic venues but not too rustic in New York? Anyone have some options they’ve booked or know great venues they’ve been guests at?