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Shiny
Has anyone else gotten any funny RSVP's? RSVP frustrations?
Shiny, on August 8, 2012 at 12:30 AM

I got a RSVP in the mail today that said two people would be coming and it had their food order but it didn't have their names. There was no return address on the envelope either. I have two days till...

KrystalH, Aug 9, 2012 39 4,690
S
No ceremony means sans the....
SharonR, on August 9, 2012 at 1:48 PM

So as I mentioned before, we are having a wedding reception without the ceremony. (For immigration reasons we had an elopement/civil ceremony just a few weeks ago and the reception will be next year...

beachbum2004, Aug 9, 2012 4 197
Monique
Any brides cooking for their wedding?
Monique, on August 4, 2012 at 9:02 PM

My fh are on a really tight budget and can't afford a caterer. We are cooking for our reception. Our menu consist of baked chicken, spahgetti, bbq ckicken, roasted potatoes, green beans and salad....

Sally, Aug 8, 2012 45 2,361 1
Angelica
how long did you wait for...
Angelica, on August 8, 2012 at 12:19 AM

How long do I wait after my wedding, to get my original marriage license back? I live in Dallas Texas, & I have been married for exactly a month today. At first I heard 2 weeks then 3...how long did...

Mrs L, Aug 8, 2012 14 3,401
robin
engagement presents?
robin, on September 7, 2011 at 12:29 AM

My FH and i got engaged on March 18th. The only engagement presents we have received are from my mom and MOH and a cousin of my took us out to dinner when she was in town. I have not registered...

donald, Aug 8, 2012 36 3,578
Rachel W.
Need Help! Forgot Someone on Invitations
Rachel W., on March 21, 2012 at 9:17 AM

So we forgot someone! It's one of my FH's first cousins. He rarely sees her (I've met her once in 6 years) and they are not close. She lived out of state until a couple of months ago. So his aunt and...

Patrick, Aug 7, 2012 4 299
K
Cupcake Table - Is it necessary for lables?
Kat, on August 7, 2012 at 3:43 PM

We are doing cupcakes rather than a cake. Below is my inspiration pic. FSIL is making our cupcakes and a small cake for FH and I to cut. We're going to have 2 cupcake flavors: Brown butter pumpkin...

Kat, Aug 7, 2012 23 1,274
Olivia
I asked my cousin to be my reader for my wedding, buuuut...
Olivia, on August 7, 2012 at 2:08 AM

I have no idea what! My aunt said she had her reader do 1 Corinthians 13 at her wedding, and while it is a very important verse, I feel like everybody does it! What are some suggestions? What are you...

FarmersWife, Aug 7, 2012 8 348
Renee
Reading for children in blended family
Renee, on August 5, 2012 at 11:30 AM

Can anyone help me with a reading for the children during our ceremony when we are giving them a gift?

Anonymous, Aug 6, 2012 4 1,165
PurpleSun
Pre-Wedding Brunch Wording
PurpleSun, on August 5, 2012 at 9:17 PM

So I am trying to design the pre-wedding brunch invitations and I was looking for something short and cute to say. What do y'all think of: 1) __________ is invited to come “toast” the new Mr. & Mrs....

Mrs. Clark aka Mrs A, Aug 5, 2012 2 662
Pan
Piercing A Baby/Toddler's Ears Vent
Pan, on July 15, 2012 at 10:34 PM

So SIL took my 1 year and 4 months old niece to Wal-mart today and got her ears pierced. MIL is furious at her, and I am a little too. I'm holding my tongue, because when it comes down to it she is...

Groomzilla, Aug 4, 2012 88 648
marriedlady
Turn off cell phones at the ceremony???
marriedlady, on August 3, 2012 at 1:45 AM

I want to have some signage at the ceremony to take a program and take a wand(I'm making wedding wands), but can I also write please silence your cell phones or is that rude? I guess I'm taking a...

Groomzilla, Aug 4, 2012 15 532
MrsKAllTheWay
When should we buy our wedding bands?
MrsKAllTheWay, on August 4, 2012 at 2:57 PM

FI thinks I'm being completely bridezilla/unreasonable because I'd like to go start looking for wedding bands this weekend. Is it too soon? When did you get yours?

PurpleSun, Aug 4, 2012 14 441
Tatyana
Events for Out of Town Guests
Tatyana, on August 1, 2012 at 10:14 AM

We're just starting to plan the specifics but more than half of our guests are going to be from out of town and we're hoping that another 10 or so will come from out of the country. This means that...

Jackie Martucci, Aug 3, 2012 11 336
Monique
Pure Romance party as a bachelorette party?
Monique, on August 3, 2012 at 9:11 AM

For my bachelorette party my bf wants to have a pure romance party as my bachelorette party. I told her I don't want strippers. She doesn't go out much so coming to a common ground is going to be...

Monique, Aug 3, 2012 7 141
Shemeika
Cocktail vs Dinner Receptions
Shemeika, on August 2, 2012 at 3:37 PM

Is it okay to have a cocktail reception at a destination wedding or is it in better taste to have a dinner reception? What do you ladies think?

Anastasia, Aug 3, 2012 23 231
Shannon
I ruined his bachelor party! :S
Shannon, on July 14, 2012 at 2:37 PM

Yesterday was my 30th birthday (ew), but it also happens to be the day that FI's buddies decided to kidnap him for the his bachelor party. This was fine by me, as I know FI has been looking forward to...

Bobba, Aug 3, 2012 38 3,715
Mary
wording of online RSVP- please help
Mary, on August 3, 2012 at 12:29 PM

Hi ladies, Another wording question - What did you or will you put on your online RSVP page .. .. I need some ideas! Thanks

WasSoon2BMrsSmith, Aug 3, 2012 3 319
M
Addressing invitations with middle name
Marisol, on August 3, 2012 at 11:27 AM

Hi. I'm not finding the answer to this as I search the forums. Maybe I'm not digging deep enough. I'm curious as to, when you address your invitations, do you include the guest's middle name, if it's...

Liz, Aug 3, 2012 6 2,352
Tatyana
Do I Need A Garter?
Tatyana, on August 1, 2012 at 5:29 PM

We're not planning on doing a garter toss but I just saw a post on people having keepsake garters - what's the reasoning behind the second one? Is there a tradition I'm missing?

Raechel, Aug 2, 2012 19 2,624
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