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I want to sue my wedding photographer
L Cruz, on July 10, 2013 at 11:19 AM

I hired a photographer for my wedding back in September of last year. I still have not received my albums that I paid for [3] . I have tried calling, texting, emailing, posting on his facebook/twitter...

Anonymous, Jul 23, 2014 20 2,198
TexasBeThyFrontier
Help with Mother/Son Song: she suggested praise music; he's an atheist
TexasBeThyFrontier, on July 21, 2014 at 3:08 PM

Groom suggested: Days Like This - Van Morrison, Praise Score: 0 / 10 https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-songs/mother-son-music/days-like-this/be749fcb9e591102.html MOG came back with this: Mark...

TexasBeThyFrontier, Jul 23, 2014 21 179
Laura
How to invite some but not others?
Laura, on February 15, 2010 at 8:49 PM

I am in a quandary as how I can diplomatically invite some relatives/friends and not others. For instance, how could I reasonably invite one cousin on the same side of the family but not an another,...

Lisa, Jul 23, 2014 12 2,139
ajlark726
Some Kids Welcome, some not?? HELP!
ajlark726, on January 7, 2014 at 10:30 PM

So I am having a larger wedding, with a very tight budget and limited space. We have a few children involved in the wedding (my twin niece and nephew as flower girl and ring bearer and my fiances 9...

Lisa, Jul 23, 2014 17 1,077
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Pre-marital Counseling Woes
Jesse's Girl, on July 17, 2014 at 8:14 PM

We recently had our first pre-marital counseling session. We will be getting married in my home church, a nondenominational church, in my home town approximately 6 hours from where we currently live....

Jesse's Girl, Jul 22, 2014 28 1,020
Mrs.
choosing my wedding over my job?? they scheduled me on my wedding day!!! (VENT RANT!!)
Mrs., on October 16, 2012 at 1:01 AM

Who do these people think they are?!?!? are you kidding me?!!! So the story starts 6 months ago when i asked for a week off of work right when i started this job. after they hired me of course not in...

Private User, Jul 22, 2014 58 3,509 1
Sally
Inviting: male or female first?
Sally, on July 22, 2014 at 11:36 AM

I have a few girlfriends that are living with their fiances/boyfriends. I've always heard on addressing invitations you address the male first but I feel weird addressing invitations to the male when...

Tee76, Jul 22, 2014 21 11,183
HRH Mags
Does being married effect Financial aid for college?
HRH Mags, on May 10, 2012 at 12:17 AM

Hey, FH and I are at different stages in schooling but both are attending college. Both of us are receiving financial aid to help cover tuition. FH is also receiving several scholarships. I know the...

Private User, Jul 21, 2014 14 1,055
andeejai
Crying walking down the aisle...
andeejai, on July 18, 2014 at 1:08 PM

Do you think or know you will cry? Or think you weren't going to cry and did? I know I will cry, but I hope I do not get too emotional. I don't want ugly cry face in my photos lol. I do not want to...

Kaesey, Jul 21, 2014 30 2,012
Jasmine
Same-sex engagement issues!?
Jasmine, on July 19, 2014 at 1:51 PM

We must not be some of the only same sex couples on here newly engaged! Right now our big problem is that we're not "officially" announcing our engagement until September! Because that is when our...

Anisea, Jul 21, 2014 21 1,325
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Real thoughts on Honeymoon registries
Alex, on February 25, 2013 at 11:26 AM

So...I need some advice from real brides (not someone being paid to promote!) on HM registries. What's your opinion on them? Are they tacky or, if you're not asking someone to pay for your actual...

Jessica, Jul 21, 2014 33 253
Lauren
Photographer payment
Lauren, on July 20, 2014 at 4:46 PM

Is it standard for a photographer to ask for full payment before the wedding? How are you all paying yours? We don't know of we should pay in full before receiving our photos!

Samantha, Jul 21, 2014 31 907
Sasha B.
Grand entrance songs
Sasha B., on July 20, 2014 at 4:13 PM

Hi Ladies! So we have all of our music finalized except for the bridal party entrance song and mine and FH song. We both love rap/hip hop so we were trying to find some fun songs in those categories....

FutureMrsLewis, Jul 21, 2014 13 260
Jan87
Did you confirm receiving guests rsvp?
Jan87, on July 20, 2014 at 3:02 AM

Hi everyone. I was just wondering if anyone let your guests know if you received their RSVP? Are any of you sending out wedding reminders or is that too much??...

Northern MN, Jul 21, 2014 11 5,536
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My MOH isn't attending my bachelorette party!
Julie, on July 20, 2014 at 10:03 PM

Hello ladies! I'm having trouble with my MOH and could really use some advice. I'm getting married in a couple of months and everything has been great except my MOH is saying she won't come to my...

Mrs. F-u-..., Jul 21, 2014 40 1,365
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Wedding on 4th of July?
Gina, on July 20, 2014 at 7:14 PM

My fiance & I are thinking of having our wedding on July 4, 2015. But before we even set that as our official date, we wanted some feedback. Preferably from those who have had 4th of July weddings, or...

TysonBB, Jul 21, 2014 14 5,370
Elizabeth
Catholic Bride/Baptist Groom--Meeting w/priest
Elizabeth, on July 18, 2014 at 4:03 PM

My fiancé and I are meeting with the priest next week for the first time to discuss our wedding. I'm a little nervous because my fiancé is baptist, and we currently live together because my roommate...

...., Jul 19, 2014 9 1,389
Macie
Return Address on Invites?
Macie, on July 19, 2014 at 11:55 AM

Did you put a return address on the actual outer envelope of the invitation? Of course, we put the Address on the RSVP cards for everyone to send them back but what about the front??

Northern MN, Jul 19, 2014 13 4,780
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Bridesmaid Facebook Group
Kelly, on July 18, 2014 at 6:40 PM

A couple of my bridesmaids live out of town, so I'm starting a private Facebook page to share ideas, etc. I need a cute, clever name to call my group. Any suggestions??

Xoxo, Jul 19, 2014 2 288
Thecane428
Are you inviting all of your sorority sisters?
Thecane428, on July 19, 2014 at 9:15 AM

I am getting married next April in what I thought would be a small wedding. (My reception site only fits 120 people max.) I have already sent out STD to about 112 people. I am rushing in the fall and...

Kaegurl, Jul 19, 2014 6 100
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