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Shir
No bridesmaids or garter toss?
Shir, on August 2, 2017 at 2:45 PM

I'm not planning on having any bridesmaids because they don't do anything during the ceremony and I don't want to make my friends pay for all of it, but my fiancé is having two best men and is...

Esperanza, Aug 7, 2017 48 205
Mrs.KM
How long to get back my marriage certificate?
Mrs.KM, on August 7, 2017 at 8:40 AM

I got married over two weeks ago, and still have yet to receive a copy of my marriage certificate. My preacher had it mailed in the following monday. I wouldn't be too concerned but I really need to...

annakay511, Aug 7, 2017 2 845
M
Should I get a spray tan?
Mrs., on August 7, 2017 at 5:02 AM

I get married this Saturday 8/12 (yes, I know my date is wrong). Should I get a spray tan or not? I will be wearing my hair up for the wedding. If I were to do it I would go to a girl who sprays it on...

LibraryBelle, Aug 7, 2017 14 261
Jameena
No point of a garter if there's no toss?
Jameena, on August 5, 2017 at 11:58 PM

My sister thinks because I'm not doing a garter toss I don't need a garter *spoiled foot stomp.* I guess I could save the money and not get one, what do you all think? I thought it would a fun prop...

AdventuresofRuth, Aug 6, 2017 49 232
Lindsay
Informal invitation addressing?
Lindsay, on August 6, 2017 at 4:35 PM

So I'm thinking we may want to be a little informal when addressing our invitations. I'm really not a fan of the whole "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith" deal. It just seems really stiff. We were thinking of...

weddingbee, Aug 6, 2017 8 1,124
Lovecat
Introduction if I'm not changing my name?
Lovecat, on August 5, 2017 at 4:41 PM

I think I have reached decision-making saturation, so please just help a sister out with a sanity check. I'm not changing my name, so it seems somewhat odd to me to be introduced at the reception as...

Jess'sgirl, Aug 6, 2017 22 3,554
Anne
Bachelorette Party Gifts
Anne, on August 6, 2017 at 8:10 AM

Hello all! My shower/bachelorette weekend is coming up next weekend and I am SO pumped! I am so so grateful to the amazing women in my life who are organizing everything. I have friends from all over...

Lindsey, Aug 6, 2017 15 1,282
IItsumo
Advice for getting a video message from a bestfriend that can't be at the wedding.
IItsumo, on August 6, 2017 at 1:28 PM

My FH best friend was supposed to be his BM however he recently got offered a promotion to store manager and the store opens the weekend of our wedding. Both my FH and I understand his choice he has a...

Terry, Aug 6, 2017 11 1,345
ChrysieMyDear
Invitations; handing them out?
ChrysieMyDear, on August 6, 2017 at 11:28 AM

FH and I decided that we would hand deliver our wedding invitations to the family/friend's that lived closest to us (within an hour drive, which accounts for most of our GL, others are out of state)...

OHP, Aug 6, 2017 25 1,649
T
How to politely let vendors know you aren't using them
ThefutureMrsRech, on August 6, 2017 at 10:53 AM

Hi! I have a few DOC and other vendors that I have interviewed and am not moving forward with for a DW. I want to let them know but am not sure how to go about it in a polite and sincere way. Any...

ThefutureMrsRech, Aug 6, 2017 6 108
Kelly
Reserved signs for ceremony
Kelly, on August 5, 2017 at 11:18 AM

Do people know that they shouldn't sit in the first one to two rows on either side for the seats in the ceremony if there aren't reserved seating signs? I don't want to have to buy reserved signs if I...

July18Bride, Aug 6, 2017 13 2,143
R
Invited Guests of Bachelorette Don't Want to Pay Anything
Renee, on August 5, 2017 at 3:21 AM

Having problem w/non-bms who don't want to pay for my friends bachelorette. We started a FB event, invited whom the bride said to, posted ideas looking for recommendations or concerns & 3 days later...

The Trap Selena, Aug 5, 2017 49 3,662
Alforev
Dealing with Exhaustion
Alforev, on August 5, 2017 at 11:10 AM

Has anyone else just felt completely overwhelmed and exhausted? Whether it's related to wedding planning or life in general, what have you done to cope? I have 2 jobs as a full time teacher and tutor,...

Yvette, Aug 5, 2017 10 117
C.C.
Tipping the Venue??
C.C., on August 3, 2017 at 8:43 PM

Our venue wrote a "suggested tip" on our final paperwork of $800-$1100. This seemed ridiculous to me as we are paying a substantial amount to the venue, what's the tip for? We're tipping...

Stacey, Aug 5, 2017 31 1,933
Tyson
Intrusive Mother In Law
Tyson, on August 3, 2017 at 5:49 PM

Wondering if anyone else may be in a similar issue. My future mother in law is very intrusive and will constantly wedge her way into plans. For example, my fiancé and I were planning to take a cruise...

DandJ, Aug 5, 2017 21 1,924
Rachel
I apologize for the RSVP vent
Rachel, on August 3, 2017 at 7:39 PM

We are a few days past our RSVP deadline and we are still missing 40 RSVPs! I knew I would have to track a few people down but 40?! It sucks so much. The few people I have spoken to have told me they...

Brittney, Aug 4, 2017 24 188
Patricia
Photo booth questions
Patricia, on June 14, 2017 at 1:56 AM

So after long and thoughtful process and going back and fourth we decided to do a photo booth. I have a few questions and need opinions. 1. Should we have it run for 3 or 4 hrs? Vendor recommended 3...

MidwestSelfies, Aug 4, 2017 8 379
K
Assigned seating or reserved tables for reception
Kenna, on August 4, 2017 at 10:07 AM

My fiance and I are in disagreement about whether or not to assign seats at our wedding. As a generally introverted person, I feel more comfortable with assigning seats for everyone. My fiance does...

WWMP, Aug 4, 2017 35 456
C
Groom nervous about pictures.
Charity, on August 4, 2017 at 1:29 PM

My fiancé is always nervous and doesn't like his picture taken. He is becoming especially nervous about the wedding day photos. I usually try making him laugh to get him to smile, otherwise is looks...

Kathleen Smith, Aug 4, 2017 9 98
Hannah
Advice For My First Bridal Show???
Hannah, on August 4, 2017 at 11:08 AM

I'm attending The Pink Bride Bridal Show in Knoxville, TN on August 13th, and I am very excited! I really don't know what to expect though! Any advice?

Amy, Aug 4, 2017 17 157
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