Who holds the rings during ceremony?

You're mom is wrong. I've had many couples where the groom held both rings. I've also had mothers bring the rings forward (I say something about family history, the importance of moms....) but I have a hunch that's not going to fly.

Your officiant can also hold them, or you can have them in a little box or pillow on the ceremony table.

Thanks. My mom picks the weirdest things to fight over for the wedding.

LOL....it does bring out the crazy in people, doesn't it? When I have the moms bring them forward, I skip the "roses for the moms" piece I usually do during the welcome, but I think it is nice to honor them no matter how nuts they might get. (Of course there are some that are really too problematic to include....)

Does it matter to you? If not then no it doesn't.

I don't think you're stupid at all. However I agree I would do it the way your mom suggested

Our officiant had ours.

Even with ring bearers, a groomsmen is holding the rings. His best person is his sister. No pockets in her dress. Not trusting his ring doesn't slip off at some point and be lost.

Choose whoever you want. You're not stupid.

What about one of the fathers? My officiant recommended that my FFIL told the rings instead of the best man since he wouldn't really have a role in the wedding. I think my FH wants his BM to hold them

I would have thr officiant hold them or your FH. Only reason i wouldn't have the MOH hold them is because she won't have pockets I assume.

My mom picks the most insignificant things to argue about too lol... She is the bridezilla not me. IDGAF about most wedding planning related thingsz

The best man will be holding the rings, since my MOH will be holding my bouquet.

Traditionally it's the best man.

We are going to have the rings in their boxes on a table under the arbor.

We are having his 94 yr old mom hold our rings. She'll be right up front sitting in her wc . She gets the VIP seat. We are excited that she'll be holding our rings for us. Who says there's a "tradition" you have to follow. Make it yours!

Who ever you decide just make sure they get brought to the ceremony doesn't really matter who holds them

As the PPs have said - doesn't really matter who holds them, as long as they're not forgotten. well, unless......

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/video/video-1410443/Dog-saves-wedding-day-best-man-forgot-wedding-rings.html

You could have MOH hold both rings......

I don't usually have the MOH hold a ring because she's holding her own bouquet and the bride's. If there is a Best Man, I ask that he have both. If the couple does not have anyone standing up with them, I place the rings into a beautiful shell on the stand for the unity sand containers. I don't usually have pockets.

Our best man held them. I liked that option because he didn't have anything else to worry about holding or keeping in his pockets (bouquet, tissues, vows, etc.) so he was only responsible for those items. Our MOH has tiny hands and wouldn't be able to keep either of our bands on her thumbs and she had my bouquet and hers. It's up to you how you want to do it though.