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inviting neighbors?

OL7889, on August 8, 2017 at 2:28 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

My FH and I are having a disagreement in terms of inviting neighbors... our neighbors on both sides of us are both our age. We are significantly closer to one set of neighbors...they invite us over anytime they are having friends over, we go out with them for drinks, even invited for Thanksgiving. Definitely plan on inviting them to the wedding.

However, we don't really spend time with the other neighbors. We invite them over whenever we have a party but they rarely come, which is fine. This may be petty of me, but they recently had a outdoor baby shower at their house and invited other neighbors but not us. So why should we expected to invite them to our wedding? FH says we can't invite the other neighbors without inviting these, but I disagree. If we don't really spend time with them, then why invite them? Thoughts?

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Latest activity by Amy, on August 8, 2017 at 2:51 PM
  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    Invite the ones you are close with.

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  • FME
    Master March 2018
    FME ·
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    Invite the ones you are close with and spend time with. You don't have to invite both.

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  • F
    VIP August 2019
    Futuremrsk ·
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    Invite the ones you are closer with.

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  • Hannah
    Super August 2017
    Hannah ·
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    Don't invite them

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    It would be a nice gesture, but so not necessary.

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  • Oct2018Bride
    Super October 2018
    Oct2018Bride ·
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    Invite the neighbors you are close with.

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  • Laura
    Master July 2017
    Laura ·
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    Only invite the ones you are close with.

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  • CoolKat
    Super October 2017
    CoolKat ·
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    Agree with PP. Invite the ones you are close with.

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
    KatieMBY ·
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    I wouldn't invite them...

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  • Amy
    Super October 2017
    Amy ·
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    You don't have to invite both of them. But just a thought of they normally decline your invite for anything else who's to say they'll come to your wedding? Is it really worth the argument with FH? I'd probably just invite them and say screw it.

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