Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We are hosting an open bar for the duration of our reception. Is it appropriate to tell the bartenders that we do not want to allow shots at all?

Found some cute and affordable personalized shot glasses we can do as favors. Good idea?

Well, how much was it? Please include food or restaurant cost, the amount of people, honeymoon cost, how many days, etc, Details details details

So I am having an out-of-state wedding and originally thought I would book engagement pics with a local photographer and then book a different wedding photographer. Well since I booked the local...

So I have collected 95% of addresses I need, and have sent save the dates to most out of town people already. A problem I am having is at least 5 of FH's friends literally won't give us their address,...

My fiances cousin is getting married in about a month and I'm not sure how much we should give? He really isn't that close to his cousin, they only see each other about once every one or two years. I...

Has anyone else ever heard that it's bad luck for the bride to participate in the rehearsal? Like, the bride should not walk the aisle during the rehearsal... I can't remember where I heard this, but...

My son is getting married in Savannah and all the guests will be from out of town. Any ideas for an informal rehearsal dinner/welcome party which will include all the guests?

Hi guys! I've been on wedding wire for a while and look at posts but this is my first time posting, we are finally under the 300 day mark and am getting so excited! (I'm still learning the lingo so...

Hello. We are sending out our invitations for our early November wedding this week. A friend, who I was going to invite, lost her husband last week very unexpectedly. I am not sure if I should still...

I've read it on here, but I never thought it would happen to me! Tonight one of my BMs said that she was being "mistreated" and "didn't feel comfortable being in my wedding". I have been reaching out...

I'm a BM in a friend's wedding that's about a month before my wedding. After asking me to be a BM, which I said yes to, she told me that she wants her bachelorette party to essentially be a 4 day...

I got married last summer, and my BFF was my MOH. She is getting married next spring. Her sister is her MOH and I am Matron of Honor. I was thrown 0 parties. She has dictated to BMs, through her...

So when are you supposed to ask your bridal party? I want them to be a part of the planning process if they so choose. It seems like you have to book your vendors super early, so if you wait they may...

So my husband wants to throw me the wedding we never had and do everything traditional. Our 10 year wedding anniversary is August 20, 2020 which will be the date of the wedding. Honestly is it tacky...

Anyone getting married Mother's Day weekend? Any potential issues with that weekend? I realize flowers may be more expensive and our anniversary would always fall around Mother's Day. Is anyone...

Our venue is all inclusive i.e.,Catering, Cake, DJ, Flowers. We paid a 22% service charge. We also paid $3000 for a photography package. Please refresh my memory as to who and how much should...

I'm wondering if we should tip our dance instructor. We paid for 5 dance lessons in advance and I'm wondering if people usually tip during their final lesson or not. Seems odd to me to tip, but I...

I was wondering if wedding invitations should match wedding signage? I found these floral invites that are so cute but I wanted wooden signs for our unplug sign and also wanted it to be more white and...