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Sydney
Conditional money from my parents
Sydney, on February 28, 2018 at 7:12 PM

My parents and I haven't always seen eye to eye, which we usually work through. Now that it's time for wedding planning, we're starting to butt heads again. I'd just like some advice. My parents gave...

Sydney, Mar 2, 2018 30 2,390
Monica
Gift for my dj
Monica, on March 1, 2018 at 6:10 PM

Hi everybody, I am planning to ask one of my best (male) friends to be the DJ for my wedding reception. I would like to invite him to brunch along with my bridesmaids/made of honor to ask them all...

The Nuptials, Mar 2, 2018 13 1,152
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Hiring Friend as Bartender
Kara, on March 1, 2018 at 7:36 PM

I want to buy the alcohol myself since our caterer doesn't provide it. Do I have to get a temporary license/insurance to serve alcohol at the reception? Also, what is a good rate of pay for a friend...

Heather, Mar 1, 2018 6 3,688 1
Malika
What information is typically on wedding program?
Malika, on February 28, 2018 at 2:20 PM

I'm designing our wedding programs and not sure what information should or shouldn't be there. Any advice? Please share any images of your programs or templates you used

Amber, Mar 1, 2018 4 648
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Hotel Block Pricing
Brittany, on March 1, 2018 at 10:29 AM

I just wanted to get some opinions on this. I set up the Hotel Block Request service that WW provides, and I'm starting to get bids back from the hotels. It seems like either my guests are going to...

Janie, Mar 1, 2018 15 430
Erica
How much wine to buy for 100 people?
Erica, on August 18, 2013 at 2:57 PM

Also serving bottled beers, no liquor. Going to serve a red and a white wine. Help!

Tom, Mar 1, 2018 18 31,401
The New Mrs. Compton
Bridesmaid drama- vent!
The New Mrs. Compton, on July 21, 2014 at 11:43 PM

I found out today that my future sister in law (my FH's brother's wife) will not be attending my bachelorette party. She is a bridesmaid. I'm so frustrated because she didn't even tell me, but told...

Preslee, Mar 1, 2018 29 466
Katie
Vegan Wedding
Katie, on August 21, 2017 at 9:22 AM

FH and I went to a wedding over the weekend where they only served vegan dishes and cupcakes. The bride is the only one who is vegan. We noticed that more than half of the dishes went untouched and...

LusineK, Mar 1, 2018 86 1,231
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Bridesmaid's money problems
Charlene, on February 28, 2018 at 10:11 PM

We all graduated from college a couple of years ago. I get it. We're not rolling in the big bucks yet. But my MOH has made a number of comments to me about one particular BM that has been combatant...

An, Mar 1, 2018 8 661
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Cleaning a tiara?
Samantha, on February 26, 2018 at 11:28 PM

I got this tiara probably 8 years ago to wear on my birthday. I recently found it again and was hoping to wear it for my wedding now but it's a bit more dingy than I first thought. Does anyone know...

mimi, Feb 28, 2018 10 2,997
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Minted Wedding Invites - rsvp on back?
Amanda, on January 31, 2018 at 11:42 AM

Hello all, I am looking at Minted.com and am in LOVE with their designs; however, the price is more than what we budgeted on for invitations if we were to purchase the whole shebang (RSVP, direction...

Amanda, Feb 28, 2018 12 2,401
Megan
How much is too much to ask your bridesmaids to pay?
Megan, on February 27, 2018 at 10:50 AM

After deciding on a hotel, and seeing how much flights are, it’s looking like my bridesmaids are going to pay approx $700 each. I’ve offered to pay for one night of the three night stay, and...

Breanne, Feb 28, 2018 26 3,063
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When did save the dates become invitations?
Crystal, on February 27, 2018 at 6:02 PM

I thought they were just used to pretty much announce that you’re getting married and finally picked a day. I’m really confused now. I’m having a destination wedding and can only accommodate 21 guest...

Lynnie, Feb 28, 2018 11 1,252
Chelsea
Bachelorette Presents? Please help!
Chelsea, on August 1, 2011 at 7:37 PM

So today i was talking to me MOH and she asked what kind of presents would i like for my bachelorette party. I had no clue! I was drawing a complete blank! So i was like "uh i dont know lingerie?"...

Caitlin, Feb 28, 2018 26 10,829
MzRosaLu
Wedding Website: how to say "no kids"?
MzRosaLu, on October 27, 2015 at 4:16 PM

For those of you having adult-only weddings, how did you word this on your wedding websites (if at all)? Is it best to just say it bluntly like that, or did you add some fluff to it? I've heard of...

MJ, Feb 28, 2018 36 5,463
Pham
Invitation- including parents name etiquette
Pham, on February 27, 2018 at 10:29 PM

I was wondering what’s the etiquette for adding parents name to the wedding invitations. I know traditionally it’ll be parents hosting name listed. So for our wedding we are paying for 75% and my...

Sara, Feb 27, 2018 8 672
eikukn
Rehearsal Save The Date Wording
eikukn, on February 27, 2018 at 7:01 PM

My future in laws are generously hosting a rehearsal dinner for us. They have asked me to create an insert to our save the dates as a sort of "rehearsal save the date". I will happily oblige, as...

eikukn, Feb 27, 2018 10 992
Mary
“send-off” after ceremony vs reception?
Mary, on February 27, 2018 at 2:56 PM

Our wedding is at 4pm in November, so by the time the ceremony is over, the sun will be setting. Our photographers will not be staying until the absolute end of the reception, and it’ll be pitch dark...

Mrsbdg, Feb 27, 2018 11 1,131
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Engagement Party - Gift for hostess?
Kristin, on February 21, 2018 at 9:57 PM

FMIL (and FFIL) are throwing us an engagement party. She wanted to have an engagement party because she's not sure if her sister who has ALS will still be around for our wedding. It will be dinner at...

Kristin, Feb 27, 2018 2 522
Mrs. Cohen
Guest entertainment... before the ceremony?
Mrs. Cohen, on February 20, 2018 at 11:58 PM

Just a thought... what do guests do between arriving to the venue and the start of the ceremony? I know most couples leave their guestbook out for guests to sign as they arrive, which is a nice time...

Mrs. Cohen, Feb 27, 2018 23 2,440
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