I have a friend who I asked to be a bridesmaid(she like begged) and I has asked her to please not have a crazy hair color for my wedding she typically has super Red(like candy apple red hair) it doesn't look bad but my wedding colors are red her dress is red and I think she looks beautiful with her natural dark brown hair I don't was her just looking like she is wearing a hooded dress. I have also asked all of the girls to use the makeup and hair people I have chosen which are fairly inexpensive and I did let them know this over a year ago when I asked and my wedding is 09/01/2018 I let them know all of the cost up front and they all were fine until it gets closer now they don't want there makeup done(well some of the girls will show up in Red glitter shadow and not look well with the other 6women stand up.... I don't want to lose a friendship over pity stuff but it is my wedding.HELP