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Savvy September 2018

How do you handle bridesmaid drama.

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Samantha, on January 5, 2018 at 10:54 AM

I have a friend who I asked to be a bridesmaid(she like begged) and I has asked her to please not have a crazy hair color for my wedding she typically has super Red(like candy apple red hair) it doesn't look bad but my wedding colors are red her dress is red and I think she looks beautiful with her natural dark brown hair I don't was her just looking like she is wearing a hooded dress. I have also asked all of the girls to use the makeup and hair people I have chosen which are fairly inexpensive and I did let them know this over a year ago when I asked and my wedding is 09/01/2018 I let them know all of the cost up front and they all were fine until it gets closer now they don't want there makeup done(well some of the girls will show up in Red glitter shadow and not look well with the other 6women stand up.... I don't want to lose a friendship over pity stuff but it is my wedding.HELP

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Alejandra · on March 3, 2018 at 12:54 AM
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If you want their makeup done a certain way you should front the cost, that being said you were upfront and honest about the cost and they agreed, I don't think your in the wrong but you can't force them to pay so now you have to decide if you want to cover the cost or bite the bullet and let them do it. As for the hair if her hair was Apple red when you asked her then apple red it is you can't ask her to change it if you didn't like it you shouldn't have asked her that's on you, I don't think your a bridezilla for wanting a specific look but you can't ask someone to change the way they've always kept their look for one day.
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