Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello! I’m having a problem with one of the groomsmen. He has known my beloved fiancé for a long time and they are very good friends. He’s a pushy guy used to getting his way and my fiancé has always...

Do you give vendors tips the night of the wedding or the morning after? Or even days / weeks after?

I'm having a dilemma!! One of my bridesmaids and I have been close friends for years and she was one of the first I asked to be a bridesmaid. She was supposed to be our proposal photographer but...

Hi! I am hoping for some creative minds to help me out here. I am very traditional and while I love my male best friend, I do not want him to be standing up with my bridesmaids at my wedding. However,...

Hello, Our venue includes everything except dj, photography and florist. How do we go about tipping them?

Hi everyone! I have a huge issue/dilemma. My bridesmaids and mother are not being very helpful in picking dates to go dress shopping in the time frame I would like to. My mother and a few bridesmaids...

What do you do when you asked your sister in law to be a bridesmaid out it being the formal thing to do. And now she’s the worst bridesmaid ever and makes everything about her. She didn’t care we had...

My fiancé and I are really leaning towards a microwedding and are super excited. However I’m feeling really badly about about leaving certain people out. We’ve decided on immediately family and...

Hi all, My husband and I got married on our original date in June 2020, downsized to just immediate family and bridal party. When we made the decision to cut the guest list, we said we hoped to have a...

So I started a new job back in September 2020. I work in a small office with only a few coworkers. Today one of my coworkers mentioned that our boss wants to host a mini bridal shower for me! I am so...

Hello Everyone! Just got an email from our venue peeps that the staff won’t be wearing masks because of liability purposes. I’m confused. I asked them to explain what that meant and also if at least...

Hi! I am sorry if this has been asked before, but would it be atrocious to write out the rsvp date and put the correct one? I read so many different places that 2-3 weeks was ok to get the RSVP cards,...

Our venue includes catering, wait staff, bar service, security, florists- the works. Basically everything except photographer & videographer. We're laying out our wedding budget and I was wondering...

So we have started to receive some wedding gifts from our registry, my aunt/grandma were attempting to purchase one specific gift but someone else purchased it before they did. So they asked me if I...

Hi all! My FW and I enjoy posting about our wedding planning ventures on things like FB and Instagram, especially my FW because she loves photography and posting the pictures she takes. However we've...

I have lots of wedding coming up this summer and fall and realized I have no idea how much to gift. How do you decide how to gift? Do you gift differently based on destination, closeness to couple,...

Hi everyone, I am trying to word on my website that we have an age restriction except for the children in our wedding party.

Hi guys. My wedding is May 8th 2021 and my wedding coordinator just cancelled on me a few days ago. We are a month and a half away from the wedding & I cannot believe this happened. In her first...

Hey y'all. So, I know this is going to sound ridiculous to most, as when most people think of marrying young they think 21-24. However, I am in a predicament. My best friend and I started dating 5...

Our new date is in August. Probably a dumb question but would you agree that it's best to just skip save the dates? Or do we still have time??