Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I would like to have both my dad and older brother walk me down the aisle. The question is not IF i should do it....it's HOW? When I see pictures of it being done it tends to look crowded. I also...

My original wedding date was last November and is now planned for May 8th. When we postpone last summer we made sure all our family and wedding party that the date worked and there would be no...

I am planning a small wedding... fifty people at most. I´m just worried that I might offend some relatives that I am not as close to if I don´t invite them. My FH is struggling with this as well. He...

Hi, I am having a very small wedding on Saint Patrick's day, so less than two weeks away. We're getting married in a park, only parents and siblings present as attendees, it will be very very small....

My husband and I got married last summer. We chose to have a super small ceremony because of covid and because one of my mother had cancer treatments and was very ill. We invited my father and my...

My in-laws are amazing. I really want to get them a thank you gift, thanking them for all the things. But I just don’t know what. I don’t really like the kind of cheesy gifts that you can buy for...

I know this topic has probably been brought up many times before, so I apologize. My FH & I have been dating for 2 yrs & 4 mos. We are getting married in Oct of this year. I have 5...

I won’t get into the situation with my photographer because I’ve already posted about it twice here but I reached out via email about a week and a half ago to make sure everything is still on board...

Hey Everyone! I just wanted to get insight from those who have sent their save the dates and invitations electronically. Based on my research it saves time, money and it’s less wasteful. The idea of...

So I'm really struggling with the idea of wedding favors. Any wedding I've ever been to you see the favors and think "aww thats cute" then forget about it, people dont take them home, or use them and...

Hi. How do you deal with difficult attention seeking family members that want to make it about themselves on your big day? Such as a bridesmaid who happens to be groom’s sister.

Hi bride friends!!! Can you tell me if you think this is enough stuff for my bridesmaids gifts, or should I get them something else too? I have heard a lot of opinions about bridesmaids gifts on here...

What is the best and worst bridesmaid gifts you have received in the past. I have never been a bridesmaid and I'm seriously lost looking for gifts for my girls. I need some inspiration and some words...

Trying to be excited but hard to with constantly changing guidelines

Hi girls ! I’m in desperate need of some help! My partner and I are planning our wedding and are discussing who we are inviting. We have a really close friend in our friend group who we will be...

Is it common for the bride's parents to give a wedding gift to the couple when they are also paying for the wedding?

Is this rude? My husbands neice is in our wedding. Honestly, I can say that I’ve messed up. Her mother asked if she could be in it and I answered yes without really thinking of it. Now, here’s where...

Seeking advice from those who eloped before their wedding, and managed to keep it a secret throughout. I don’t want/need advice to just come out and tell the family, because that’s not what we want to...