I completely understand if someone is not financially capable of giving a gift, but can we all agree that it is completely unacceptable to not even give a card? A card can be purchased 2 for a dollar at any dollar store. A couple of my bridesmaids didn't give one which I'm okay with because they gave enough. I'm mainly disappointed with my coworker.
First and foremost he invited himself to our wedding, by saying "You are going to invite me to the wedding right?" I hadn't planned to, but felt awkward saying no. Then he showed up with out even giving a card. How do I handle this? Do I really have to give a thank you note this this inconsiderate person? I'm really not one to hide my feelings so I honestly feel like telling him off or very sarcastically saying "Oh no, your card must have gotten lost". I don't think this will play out well.