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Invitation wording for sequel wedding
Chelsey, on November 20, 2020 at 12:37 PM

We got married on our original date with just close family in our back yard due to covid restrictions for our venue, we decided to have our big wedding next year (we already had money down on...

Lauren, May 14, 2021 13 4,057 2
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Dry Wedding
Anna, on May 5, 2021 at 5:20 PM

So I was just curious. Do guest have fun at a dry weddings or no? The plan wasn’t to have a dry wedding; however, it’s looking like it’s going to thunderstorm the whole day and night of the wedding so...

Sara, May 14, 2021 15 1,007
mrswinteriscoming
Do i tell someone that they will be underdressed for my wedding?
mrswinteriscoming, on May 13, 2021 at 7:08 PM

FSIL sent me a picture of a dress and I assumed that she was showing me it because she made it (she is an intermediate sewer and her talent continues to grow each time she makes something). When I...

Judith, May 13, 2021 10 1,302
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Dessert Dilemma
Katy, on May 12, 2021 at 9:21 PM

My fiancé and I are not cake people. We are really not dessert people at all. Of course we want to include something sweet at our wedding, but it’s not something we want to put much money towards. We...

Sara, May 13, 2021 13 778
BeachBride
Any Catholics feeling guilty?
BeachBride, on August 12, 2016 at 9:57 PM

I was raised Catholic, go to church on holidays and probably 4 or 5 other Sundays throughout the year. Definitely not devout. I am confirmed and baptized. FH is baptized Catholic but not confirmed and...

Lindsay, May 13, 2021 43 1,932
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Repercussions of not having cousins as bridesmaids?
Rayni, on February 12, 2021 at 2:51 PM

Hi all, My family is huge and has an apparent tradition of having female cousins as bridesmaids. I already have a bridesmaid count of 8 of my closest friends and my sister and was hoping to not add...

Rayni, May 13, 2021 12 1,926
Elizabeth
Invited without my fh after we will be married
Elizabeth, on May 8, 2021 at 9:50 AM

Okay looking for some WW perspectives on this. I just got an invite to a wedding after mine, and FH (who will be my husband) is not invited. I am on a rec tennis team with the bride and it turns out...

Samuel, May 13, 2021 26 1,892
Lisa
Father of the Bride - Tie Patch Sayings
Lisa, on May 11, 2021 at 4:57 PM

My fiancé and I purchased ties for both our fathers and want to purchase a tie patch to iron on the inside. I'm not overly sentimental/emotional and don't really know what mine should say. So far, the...

Jessica, May 13, 2021 4 920
Rebelle Fleur
Is It Tacky ?
Rebelle Fleur, on May 12, 2021 at 2:49 PM

Hello Fellow Wirees, As many COVID brides had to, I postponed my wedding. Due to that, I have 200 invitations sitting in a box that have no use. As my ceremony will now take place outdoors in the...

Becky, May 12, 2021 11 758
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Leaving friends out of the bridesmaid list?
K, on May 11, 2021 at 6:55 PM

I have two sisters and my fiancé has one sister. This is my core bridal party group. My fiancé has a best friend, a brother, and his sister’s fiancé in his party. I have three best friends, two of...

K, May 12, 2021 15 1,041
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Tipping Vendors
Maria, on May 10, 2021 at 1:21 PM

Hey ya'll! We only have 24 days until we FINALLY get to have our wedding reception! How much am I supposed to tip my vendors? Florist, 2 photographers, videographer, DJ, MC, and photobooth attendant....

Kari, May 12, 2021 10 558 1
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How to best support a guest in recovery?
Katie, on May 11, 2021 at 9:16 AM

Our wedding is this fall & my fiance has a longtime family friend who is recently out of an inpatient recovery center for addiction. From what we've heard, he's really going through with it this...

Kari, May 12, 2021 12 798
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Lingerie Shower??
Sam, on May 27, 2016 at 12:42 PM

So I am a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding. Her wedding is in a little over two and a half months. Her mom just texted me and asked if I and another bridesmaid (who she's already asked) could...

Lee, May 12, 2021 20 2,049
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Wedding band initials using maiden name or married name?
Tia, on May 10, 2021 at 10:41 PM

Hubby and I want to have our wedding bands engraved with our initials and date we met. We're already married now. What's more common, to use my maiden name initials or married name initials? Thank...

Brittany, May 12, 2021 4 2,017
Arlene
Kids on the guest list
Arlene, on May 11, 2021 at 12:55 PM

Hi ladies! My FH has a huge extended family. 2 of 5 of his cousins have 12 kids just between them!We wanted to have a small wedding of 50 people. The venue gives us a huge 50% discount for weddings 50...

Valerie, May 11, 2021 13 713
Katelyn
Groomsman drop out
Katelyn, on May 10, 2021 at 2:59 PM

Due to Covid we had to postpone our wedding a year. The wedding is around an hour away, so we were getting a head count from our bridal party on who would want to stay at the hotel near the venue so...

Marianne, May 11, 2021 6 1,222
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How to invite for just ceremony/just reception.
Mary, on May 10, 2021 at 3:03 PM

Okay. So my fiancé's parents, grandparents, and some siblings are all Mormon. So of course they are uncomfortable with alcohol. We originally were going to have the reception at the same place, but he...

Cool, May 11, 2021 8 577
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Wedding celebration question
Cindy, on May 10, 2021 at 1:17 PM

My son and his wife were married in May and are planning a wedding celebration in the beginning of 2022 when their new house will be ready. Is it ok to send out invitations to family and friends...

mrswinteriscoming, May 10, 2021 5 618
Chelsea
Bridal Shower Wishing Well for Cleaning Products
Chelsea, on January 28, 2020 at 10:26 AM

I'm the maid of honor for my friend's wedding, and for her bridal shower we're going to have a wishing well. I'm having trouble coming up with how to say it on the invitation. I just want a line or...

Judith, May 10, 2021 12 3,229
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In Person / Virtual Invitations
Namanda, on February 17, 2021 at 3:36 PM

We had to postpone our big celebration and we are going forward with it in May. We may be allowed to have 50 guests by then (which includes vendors). There are 70 other guests that we plan to invite...

Emily, May 10, 2021 12 1,649 1
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